@salima,
salima;116020 wrote:ever look at the threads on quitting smoking? there is a social group...
A poor one, but it is not a consideration, for i have done it, and it is easier than i built up for myself, I simply no longer am a smoker.
Why would i a non-smoker want a cig?
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jeeprs;116173 wrote:Buddha rejected ascetisism of an extreme form after having practised it very hard. But I think the idea of 'philosophical ascesis' is still very sound. I shouldn't really say anything further till I loose 10 kilos though:-)
But it is true that you have to 'play the hand you have been dealt' though.
I was not born with a cig in my mouth.
But i also by allowing my self the occasional celebration make me less inclined to fear that i shall never smoke again, sure i will, just not puritanicle ascetisism.
I understand fasting i even do so my self from time to time but i have never understood arduant ascetics, they slightly scare me, but have on occasion wanted to raise my hand above my head and never let it drop just so i could on the other hand have another vice i am free to overindulge in because i am paying a price elsewhere.
Total control is not what most ascetisism is about, it is total control of one part over the whole part i see as my cigs the biggest infringment of my total freedom, a big one, one or two mor eto come, but with this one falling into place i know the others will be easier.
I a non-smoker wish to be a T-totaler. Stranger things have happened.
I was an ascetic for a while, still am, still have that way of being about me, but i found it restricts you more than frees you becaus eit becomes an issue.
You ever done anything particularly as an ascetic, you must know what i am talking about, those actions or inactions you inflict upon the body so as to be free in other areas.
You know anything further about Yoga particularly Kundalini, need some advice.
And any of your thoughts on ascetisism would be welcome.