@rcs,
Krumple wrote:There is love, there is hate and there is indifference. Is there any emotion between love and hate or don't care? That I missed?
I reread this multiple times in order to decipher your intentions and to evaluate whether you typed this in a jocular fashion. You didn't, did you?
Are you to say that you
love,
hate, or
don't care about everything you've ever experienced? You've never considered anything between these extremes? I find this almost unreal. Didn't you just acknowledge that "like" holds value, and isn't "like" considered to be lower on the affinity scale than "love"? Surely then you must acknowledge that there are feelings in between "love" and "hate". And this is not even considering the semantics of the aforementioned words, like Aedes was hinting at.
Quote:But generally speaking there are only three ways in which you can respond. How does this not withstand?
When I read this, I laughed. Not at you, please don't take offense. But I thought for a second: What if humans really only had
three ways they could ever respond to a person, place, or thing. That's it. Just
three. Haha, we'd all walk around like damn robots. You must be joking my friend, right?
I think Aedes said it best here:
Aedes wrote:There is a massive qualitative range for which a word like "love" can be appropriately applied.
There's no definitive spectrum between "love" and "hate". One must consider what they even mean when they say words such as, "like", "love", or "hate".
Keep in mind, regarding the rainbow, it's not the physical rainbow (molecules and such, noted) that we think is pretty, is it? Of course not. It's the image we have stored in memory which we find aesthetically pleasing. Yes, some of this may have been influenced by society (for instance, children's books), but some of this may just be due to some 'natural' affinity towards these sights (I don't think anyone really knows for sure). Regardless, even if many consider the rainbow aesthetically pleasing, you must realize your "pretty" isn't necessarily my "pretty". It's very possible that I attach a different meaning to the word, however slightly the difference. Simply put, I may not feel the same way you do about the rainbow, and yet we both may call it pretty.
Does this seem farfetched to you? If not, it should be increasingly more apparent that it's a bit harder to create a dichotomy between "love" and "hate" and then call it a day.