caprice, I never worry about being "groomed" by a stylist. I often wonder why men bother to have plastic surgery. Vanity is not one of my life pursuits. ** Yes, I've been pretty lucky in most of my life's gifts of family, friends, and financial rewards. The more I travel this world, the more I appreciate the good karma of my life. My sister tells me it's because god has blessed me; she's a christian like all my siblings, and tells me she prays for me every day, but I'm an atheist.