@richrf,
richrf;81355 wrote:
But, I guess the question is, must they? Is there anything wrong with living with contradictions? I do all the time. It seems to me that it is a natural manifestation in attempting to adapt to all of the variety of life. Rather than beat myself up or force myself to live with an immediate resolution, I give it time and see how things may resolve. However which, I do take into account the impact.
Living with contradictions is intellectually dishonest, assuming that "living with" means not actively trying to work through the problem.
I'll use an example to illustrate. Back around when the Iraq War started, I got into an argument with a left-leaning friend. She simultaneously believed the following two things:
1) We have a moral duty not to exert unprovoked military power overseas.
2) We have a moral duty to liberate women, political dissidents, etc, living under oppressive regimes.
The contradiciton here is obvious: We have a moral duty to invade and a moral duty to not invade. I pointed this out to her and she, a person who was usually not short on words, was dumbstruck. She had no response because she had not even been aware of the tension in her beliefs.
The problem basically admits of three solutions: drop 1, drop 2, or find a way of synthesizing them so that they are no longer in conflict. It might take a person years to find a satisfactory solution. If she were still, to this day, trying to work her way through it, I would say that she would not be "living with" the contradiction. "Living with", as I understand it, would mean that she would simply forget about the problem or give it up as unsolvable and go about her business. That would be the height of intellectual dishonesty.
Working through the contradiction might take a lifetime (think of Augustine or Kierkegaard), but as long as the contradiction is confronted and recognized for what it is, then I would not say that it is being "lived with". Is that what you mean?