The toddlers

I think it might be better that instead of feeling bitterness or superiority(even if you are) towards the individuals that put you down is to realize that what they say doesn't really matter to you. You are saying you don't care what the say then in the next breath you say how inferior they are to you...that means you are giving them a value and if you give them value their comments in turn are associated and given value. I know what I suggest is next to impossible but just trying to understand that what they say doesn't change who you really are might help.

Khethil: Having an ego is not bad, everyone has an ego. Egotism can be though.

thysin
p.s. out of curiosity how old are you right now duckataco? (I don't put emphasis on a correlation between maturity and age, I do believe that being in a certain age group can expose you to certain situations more than others.)

I'm 26.

Right now I have some feeling of compassion for everyone. I don't know why. It comes and goes, it's not stable. Definitely bitterness is not a solution and what you say about giving value to opinins is right. It has to do with self-confidence. If my confidence is low then I get angry to who "hurts" me. Confidence and mood seem to me to be related. Being a slacker and bad mood, too.

I'll get over it I guess.

What do you like to do and what makes you proud? If you can think of the last time you were proud of something or felt good about doing something...well go do that again the next time you get in a bad mood.

Firstly, I sent absolutely no private messages to you, and the administrator can vouch on that: That is a downright lie. Why you're lying, I haven't a clue, but if you're going to lie in order to deface other members, I don't think this is the right place for you.

Secondly, it wasn't that I didn't want to read what you were typing, it's that what you were writing seemed more like blog material. For your information there is a blog feature on this site, and since it just seemed like you were writing out paragraphs about your experience, rather than bringing up any specific social topics, I suggested your blog may be a better place for this writing. None of this was to offend you. I then asked you if there were any specific social questions you wanted to ask, and so you decided you'd take this offensively, call me immature, and then lie about me?

Here's a protip: If you want to 'feel at home', you don't start your visit off by lying about other members, nor do you place yourself on a pedestal and start assuming everyone is immature for not necessarily agreeing with everything you say.

he was talking about my message, he just got them mixed up

I ask forgiving Zetherin, I seriously got things mixed up. The message was from Thysin and we've fixed it and we're now friends. Sorry again. I get your point about the blog.

Thysin, I'll have to think about it. It is a confusing time in wich I am re-evaluating everything, this is why maybe I don't have a solid base. I thought I knew what I had to do, but it happens not to be the answer. I therefore don't know what I'll be doing with my life, what kind of people I'll meet, and who are my life partners.

It was a misunderstanding - there's no grudge here, my friend.

Be well,

Zeth