@William,
William;69389 wrote:The only thing that ired me, was his "bedside manner" as he took it on his own to accuse me of denial. I never asked for him to give me a run down on my Afib or my heart problem.
I'm speaking on this topic with professional knowledge of it, but I am in no way going to stand for you to turn this around as if I'm
actually treating you as a patient. You've given me two variables, smoking and Afib, which I've commented on generically -- without even attempting to garner more information about you. In other words, I am not making specific medical commentary about you, I do not regard you as my patient even for the purposes of this discussion, I have not and do not give you any advice, and in the absence of a clinical relationship (and in this setting of anonymity) there is no "bedside manner" to speak of.
I hold myself to only one standard with respect to medical discussions here, and that is to prevent people from causing harm to
others through misinformation. If you believe x and y about your habits, it's your body and you get to take responsibility for it. But we're all on a level playing field in forum discussions, and when you start spouting crap that might actually dissuade someone from quitting smoking, then I claim my right to contradict you.
And if you take it personally, as if I'm acting like your doctor and an arrogant one at that, you can think again. I'm not concerned about what you do to yourself, and I'm not going to waste a drop of sweat to try and change your mind.
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Didymos Thomas;69265 wrote:Aedes is a practicing medical doctor. He happens to be a freakin' expert in the field.
I'm not a "subject expert" on a-fib or on smoking, though I spend a helluva lot of time taking care of both (and I spend more time taking care of a-fib than I do for the things I
am a subject expert in). I'm not going to use my career in and of itself to be the last line on any discussion, and if rich or william or whomever doesn't believe me, I'd accept their challenge to go and support my assertions with evidence.
Rich's point is well taken that medical science changes. That said, we have strength and confidence in certain areas of medicine based on repeated demonstrations, and if we fundamentally doubt everything just because some day the science
might change, then we're going to take crappy care of our patients.