@William,
William;68963 wrote:Aedes, the only way any one can charge one with denial is if all the facts are 100% KNOWN. Otherwise it is extremely offensive. I will agree, to an extent, "smoking" could exacerbate illness, so do fear, worry, stress, diet, smog, etc, etc, etc. I was making a supposition referring to nicotine, because it is so "habit forming" in that lust that we have for it once we imbibe it, perhaps there may be some medicinal value to it. That's all. For you to maliciously attack me saying I'm in denial is extremely egotisical since no one knows "100%". I was not trying to "insult" your intelligence; it is you are trying to insult mine and I do not appreciate it one bit, personally. I could care less about living until 90. I am grateful to see another sunrise. I do not impose my use of nicotine on others. It gives me enjoyment, personally. Now if some one gives me an alternative that does not sacrifice that enjoyment, I'm all for it. But to effort to beat me up, because I do is, wrong medicine, very wrong medicine. It's the same as a preacher telling his flock if you do this you will probably go to hell. That's the implication. I don't live by anybody else's rules. I will not be ruled in any respect. It is perfectly ok for you to offer a suggestion based on your knowledge, fine. Most doctors do that now because there is so very little they know about the person or all the many variants that "could" cause their ailments, to be definitive, which charging me with denial does.
When you know 100%, even then I will make the final decision determined how much pain is involved in the cure. Perhaps one day we will find altermatives to smoking that don't cause anguish, sacrifice of suffering. But to institute guilt by accusing them of denial is not one of them
William
nobody told my grandmother to quit, she died back in the early 70's before any of that 'no smoking' campaign began.
when i was pregnant my doctor did not advise me to quit-i was smoking about 15 cigarets a day then, having just started again after quitting for three years, not knowing i was pregnant. (this was 30 years ago) i ended up with toxemia and my son weighed less than 4 pounds, born about two weeks early. i dont know what might have been different if i had quit.
i can remember when my son was a little boy he used to grab my cigarets and try to run away with them, saying 'mommy dont smoke' and that was the only time i would ever move fast. those things are expensive! and i will never forget the saddest day in my life was when i found out he had taken up the habit.
so i spent many years smoking heavily, and have had attacks of atrial fibrilation also. what i have learned is that drinking coffee definitely affects the condition for me. i no longer smoke but i dont know how long it would be or if ever would the effects wear off enough to restore my heart function.
have you ever tried quitting smoking for let's say a year to see how you would feel? as a non-smoker, i noticed an immediate difference in my energy level-food tasted fabulous and i could smell things i never knew had any odor at all (not always good ones though). i didnt realize i had been coughing continually until it stopped altogether, and when i would get a cold and cough i thought 'what's that sound?' i could walk faster, work longer, sleep better. the thing is, when you are smoking you dont realize how much it inhibits you, that happened gradually. but the rewards are quite noticeable and immediate. try it, you might like it!
i really dont think you will get a single soul who will agree with you that nicotine has any value for good health. :nonooo: