@PappasNick,
Tough is relative to the belief people have.
Some are comfortable in pain.
So i am only saying toughest answer for a good question ,
Q: Do you exist?
A: You do not.
You may ask, "how can i do not know i do not exist?". Because your mind is clouded. And years of brain washing , conditioning and habits creates fear in you so that beliefs can live comfortably in your brain.
You all people understand , every life form , normal , virtual ...all have defense mechanism.
That is what you should observe other people and yourself.
How each one defend themself when attacked in various ways?. verbal , physical , abuse...
you can learn about yourself by observing every single word utter by everyone here.
It is all there for you to see.