@Dasein,
Dasein, It's good to know that some people "out there" understand where I'm coming from. I can only express who I think I am by what my personal perceptions are to family, friends, and strangers, and nothing more. It's probably a futile task as you claim it to be.
I can't be too bad a guy, because I literally have friends all around the world. I'm not so sure many can claim such. They include doctors, lawyers, professors, scientists, and many men and women of various professions and skills. I still travel four or five times every year around the world.
To me, participating on able2know is to learn and get entertainment; my wife keeps reminding me that I must continue to use my grey matter to stay alert and healthy. I try.
Finally, I participate in many threads on able2know, and have even initiated some of them. I have organized able2know meets in San Francisco and Austin, and have participated in Meets in Chicago, London, and Lippstadt, Germany.
During our last San Francisco Meet, Walter and Ulla visited us from Lippstadt, so we were able to meet up with Cyclo and georgeob to enjoy meals and drinks. Maybe, you can join us at the next one.