@kennethamy,
I give you the existentialist point of view on this.
Satre calls
facticity as the things you can't control. Like you are man, woman, black, white, certain nationality, war, the economy, your job, your patrner etc...
you are alway free to choose as to what you do with those facts, some choices may be unpleasant, but nevertheless you are always free to choose or not to choose.
Existentialist view Purpose as meaning and value. There are things that we value in life that drive our choices. our choices are always constrained by our facticity. I may be stuck in a lousy job, i can choose to quit, but if i quit how i'm going to pay the rent, so i choose to stay in the job. A lousy choice, nevertheless a choice.