@Catchabula,
Catchabula wrote:I thought a long time about a short answer. Mano, you are telling me what I need and as such you are taking quite a superior position. You may be right but I think everybody would be helped by such a ruthless and critical self-examination, including you. But you must have done it yourself; nobody would give such kind of advice if he hadn't been there himself no? Did you do it and could you in humble and objective terms describe what you discovered about yourself? Just to make sure you're not playing "superior mind" here. Thanks for a little explanation.
P.S. Does not need to be here. This matter being obviously off-topic.
There is some advice that is good even if advicer is being hypocritical, but no, I am not being, I already had soul-exams
I discovered that I am pathetic, and that other people are pathetic too, and its therefore very easy to find reasons to mock both other people and myself.
Im kinda generalizing cause Im not egocentric enough to write a book about myself