Baby's delivered to order

hmm. Me too.
I made the mistake of walking into the hospital the second something happened instead of waiting until labor was actually happening.
When I did that, the hormone made things go naturally TOO fast which i believe caused the complications.

tubes tied a few months later.
No thank you... No more needed.

Well, I was being kinda glib... it certainly was an element in my decision to have one kid, but just one element out of many. I would've had another if I felt it was the right thing to do. If that's what I'd decided though, I probably would've had my second baby in a different sort of situation. (Nobody forced me to do anything but man I had to fight, and being one's own advocate while going through a 56-hour labor kinda sucked.) (Evidently the story of me standing up the the delivery doctor was told and retold for a while after I went home... )

No, his being a cog has nothing to do with her being pregnant.

He apparantly is attracted to women like her.
Hey, that's great. He wants what she has to give.

I'm friends with his mother, and she's told me the first wife was much worse.

Pregnancy, how the house will be built, if he's going to take an contract to work in India (her idea) what they will be doing next week, next year, in ten years.......it's all been laid out for him.

You had another baby?

Congratulations!!!

Dont look at me like that I didnt say it.

I was refering to doctors going on holdays and not functioning well at 3.00am.
Sorry for confusing you woman.
Now get to the kitchen and make me a sammich.

Just talked to the neighbor husband last evening.

I didn't bring up the subject, since I wasn't directly told.

When I asked how things were progressing, he said. "the due date is Tuesday, and if "it" hasn't come out yet, she (the wife) want it induced. She wants "it" out of her.

I wonder how he's going to respond when he realized "it" is actually his baby.

He's been very disconnected to the whole thing, right from the beginning of the pregnancy.

Weird.

I think it's weird too, but strangely, some men are incapable of dealing with the impending arrival of a baby. To them, it only becomes real once it's there.

(They miss out on SO much!)

I suspect the baby's a girl, then. We couldn't get through an ultrasound without the technician snapping a picture of the little guy's equipment.

No, the baby is a boy.

chai2 - meet sometime sun, your philosophical twin

http://able2know.org/topic/152815-1#post-4168551

so, the mother ended up going into labor before they could inject her with **** to make her start convulsing (I mean contracting)

The baby ended up being a breech, so became a c-section.

I haven't seen her or the baby since, it's like she's been swallowed up by her house.

My husband said he saw her once outside with the baby. I asked him if she looked happy.
He said "As happy as "Mary" can look I suppose"

I guess Baby isn't behaving as planned.