@OmSigDAVID,
Why, thank you, friend, for this post.
I must have accidentally stumbled upon the things important to those who have died & been resuscitated, because only learning (to me) is as important as human kindness.
Humans, in all their glorious differences, are delightful to me.
Learning is, to me, the cure for depression (from which I've suffered).
I've probably already said that my brother (now passed away) told me that, when he was "dead," he saw/felt nothing at all. He told me the only difficult part of "dying" was, in fact, living, and feeling all of the pain again.
Note: Er, my brother was "saved from death" (a 15-minute one), to tell me these things, and only actually died several years later.