@littlek,
Good morning, k
(you realize I'm not a computer guru, don't you?
)
But this is how I did it ... (using Windoes XP)
Click the "start" Icon (bottom left hand of your screen)
Click the "Set program access & Default" icon
Click "Add & Remove programs"
Click the "Change or remove programs" option
(Which will supply you with a list of all your installed programs)
Find Messenger in that list
Right click on it
It will now be highlighted in blue, with a "remove" option box
Click the "remove" option.
And it's removed for you!
That's what I did, for the same reasons as you.
(Now I'm betting some guru whizz will come along & tell me I did the wrong thing!