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Reply Mon 29 Mar, 2010 04:59 pm
http://www.vancouversun.com/Ricky+Martin+fortunate+homosexual/2740671/story.html
good for him, but it might be the worst kept secret since liberace
Ricky Martin: 'I am a fortunate homosexual man'
BY STAFF, VANCOUVER SUNMARCH 29, 2010 3:04 PM

VANCOUVER " In a post made on his website Monday, Pop star Ricky Martin tells the world he is gay.

"Many people told me: 'Ricky it's not important,' 'it's not worth it,' 'all the years you've worked and everything you've built will collapse,' 'many people in the world are not ready to accept your truth, your reality, your nature.' Because all this advice came from people who I love dearly, I decided to move on with my life not sharing with the world my entire truth. Allowing myself to be seduced by fear and insecurity became a self-fulfilling prophecy of sabotage. Today I take full responsibility for my decisions and my actions.

"These years in silence and reflection made me stronger and reminded me that acceptance has to come from within and that this kind of truth gives me the power to conquer emotions I didn't even know existed.," he continued. "Every word that I write in this letter is born out of love, acceptance, detachment and real contentment. Writing this is a solid step towards my inner peace and vital part of my evolution. I am proud to say that I am a fortunate homosexual man. I am very blessed to be who I am."

In a recent admission noted by Billboard.com, celebrity newswoman Barbara Walters said she regretted trying to corner Martin to be straight about his sexuality in an interview in 2000. She admitted it may have killed his career. "In 2000, I pushed Ricky Martin very hard to admit if he was gay or not, and the way he refused to do it made everyone decide that he was," she told The Toronto Star. "A lot of people say that destroyed his career, and when I think back on it now, I feel it was an inappropriate question."

Walters went on to tell him: "You know, you could stop these rumors. You could say, as many artists have, 'Yes I am gay,' or you could say, 'No I'm not,' or you could leave it, as you are, ambiguous. I don't want to put you on the spot, but it's in your power to do it."

After years as a major pop star in Spanish-speaking countries, Martin skyrocketed to prominence in 1999 in the English-speaking world with his album, Ricky Martin.

The first single from the album, Livin' la Vida Loca, hit number one on the charts in several countries, including Canada, the U.S., Britain, India and Russia.

The album sold 22 million copies.

© Copyright (c) The Vancouver Sun
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jespah
 
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Reply Tue 30 Mar, 2010 07:38 am
This has been keeping me up for decades. I can now rest. Thank you.
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sozobe
 
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Reply Tue 30 Mar, 2010 08:01 am
@djjd62,
Yeh, was thinking of starting something with a title something like "Breaking News from Captain Obvious..."

A good (gay) friend of mine in California told me about a bunch of closeted gay stars maybe 10 years ago and I think the only ones that haven't come out since are Tom Cruise and Oprah Winfrey. Out of several. Ricky was one anyway.
djjd62
 
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Reply Tue 30 Mar, 2010 08:09 am
@sozobe,
i'm curious what we might hear from oprah when her show is done
sozobe
 
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Reply Tue 30 Mar, 2010 08:17 am
@djjd62,
Yep me too.
Gargamel
 
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Reply Tue 30 Mar, 2010 08:35 am
Just imagine the heights his career would have reached if he hadn't indirectly come out in that Barbara Walters interview! He'd be playing at a sold out Soldier Field this summer. For sure.
Irishk
 
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Reply Tue 30 Mar, 2010 08:39 am
@sozobe,
Oh my. I did not know that. So, Stedman's a decoy?
joefromchicago
 
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Reply Tue 30 Mar, 2010 09:41 am
@Irishk,
Technically, he's a merkin.
wandeljw
 
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Reply Tue 30 Mar, 2010 11:01 am
@Gargamel,
Gargamel wrote:

Just imagine the heights his career would have reached if he hadn't indirectly come out in that Barbara Walters interview! He'd be playing at a sold out Soldier Field this summer. For sure.


Yeah! After he appeared at Madison Square Garden, he wrote that hit song "Garden Party." Remember? Of course you do!
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Irishk
 
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Reply Tue 30 Mar, 2010 04:33 pm
@joefromchicago,
Oprah's best friend, Gayle, was on Larry King one night about 6 months ago. I only caught part of it, but he was asking her about some tabloid story about her relationship with Oprah. She was very convincing (I like her better than Oprah, anyway), so I figured it was just another sensationalist story by a gossip mag. I kinda still do.

There are two prominent celebrities I'm wondering about, though. I think they're both putting off coming out because of their careers.
sozobe
 
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Reply Tue 30 Mar, 2010 04:35 pm
@Irishk,
Which ones?

I can't tell about Oprah. Dunno. This guy was right about Rosie but I think everyone else was male. (He knew a guy who'd slept with ____, that kind of thing.) (And while that sounds suspect, I don't think he was making it up. He was a pretty low-key guy who knew a lot of young, good-looking Hollywood types.)
Irishk
 
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Reply Tue 30 Mar, 2010 05:27 pm
@sozobe,
One has already been mentioned...Tom Cruise. The other I've sometimes wondered about is Anderson Cooper. Both deny they are, so I feel like I'm invading their privacy or something by wondering.
djjd62
 
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Reply Tue 30 Mar, 2010 05:30 pm
@Irishk,
i think it's pretty widely accepted that anderson cooper is gay, he travels with a good friend (male) most every where he goes

i don't think most folks care about his sexuality, so he gets a pass
Irishk
 
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Reply Tue 30 Mar, 2010 05:45 pm
@djjd62,
Exactly. I don't care, but I wonder (if it's indeed true) why he does?
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