I think I will dare to add a possible bombshell from yourself, that at some point before Lilia died, you wished it would be over, whether the wish was only for a millisecond, or underlying for some time, or only in times of her acute distress.
Normal, normal.
@ossobuco,
Quote:What do u think Lilia woud advise u to do ?
Lilia? She'd advise me to shut up and get on with it.
Lilia lived for the moment in a way that very few people can.
Quote: I cried so hard and so loudly at my own sister's funeral that all of my relatives were, well, mortified. I simply could NOT shut up!
Quote: My mum was a little like that, i could just imagine Lilia watching her and telling her she was being “a wee bit over the top”
Quote: I think I will dare to add a possible bombshell from yourself, that at some point before Lilia died, you wished it would be over, whether the wish was only for a millisecond, or underlying for some time, or only in times of her acute distress.
Normal, normal.
Yeah, i was going to add that earlier but i wasn’t sure how to put it. Thank you, i was hard to justify why i thought it, so i didn’t write it, but yeah, defiantly had those moment.
@AbbieMcKenley,
David wrote:What do u think Lilia woud advise u to do ?
AbbieMcKenley wrote:Lilia? She'd advise me to shut up and get on with it.
Lilia lived for the moment in a way that very few people can.
Will u honor her wishes ?
AbbieMcKenley wrote:Yeah, i was going to add that earlier but i wasn’t sure how to put it.
Thank you, i was hard to justify why i thought it, so i didn’t write it,
but yeah, defiantly had those moment.
Its obvious that u only wanted her discomfort to end.