wife being controlled by another man and police

Suggestions? Sure. Stop double-posting.

Get your paranoid schizophrenia treated.

As I said in the other topic, get counseling. It is confidential and if your wife goes with you, you might actually figure out wtf is happening.

Or you might realize you should get out of the situation entirely. People aren't just controlled like mindless automatons. I assume your wife has a brain and is mentally competent, e. g. she does not have a head injury or Alzheimer's, yes? Then, in some ways, this is her own choice. I'm sorry if that seems harsh. But the bottom line is, do you want this nonsense to drag YOU down as well? At some point in time, if other fixes have not worked, it is time for YOU to cut YOUR losses and walk.