@ossobuco,
I'll tell on myself - when I met CJ outside my cousin's house, I tripped, since I was looking at the front gate and the driveway gate and not the damned step. So there was immediate comedy that made for immediate comfort. Thank god she didn't just frown at me. Anyway, that avatar makes me happy.
Tangent, now back to Oprah, whom I gather is not leaving until 2011.