@ossobuco,
I'll add that I am still recalcitrant re adoption because of possible flat out failure for paying for serious pet conditions, and wherever others draw the line on those, I can't enter into any of it financially.
It's a bummer, but I can deal.
Still, is some life better than none? I genuinely do not know. I'll pick life.
My business partner (former, so had) has had many many pets. She rescued one she saw thrown from a truck, and paid for his hip surgery... probably not easily.
But, also to quote her, "it's a cat" - she was raised on a ranch.
She had a limit.
But who but me a fool would have rescued Pacco, at least six years old at the time?
What would I like? more money from any who have it to support shelters and good care, and even, praise be, no kill places..