I decided not to put my two bob's worth into the discussion yesterday, osso. I wouldn't have been of much use anyway, because I'm totally biased. I can't bear to see the desperation of animals in these shelters, either. Animals in such circumstances just break my heart. I can hardly stand to look.
I'd probably say that
any good home, even an impoverished one (rather like my own
) is preferable. You make the necessary adjustments & they give you such joy back! And a home without a resident animal seems an unnatural state of affairs!
But (sigh) I know (& agree) that these decisions must be made responsibly. Providing a critter with food is probably the least of the problem. It's the unforeseen serious ailments (if you're really unlucky) that require vet visit after vet visit ..... ongoing expensive medication or treatment. You want to be in a position to to be able to provide for the necessary care, when or if the situation arises.
I do understand your dilemma. It's a difficult decision, alright.