@ossobuco,
Some years ago now, I went out of my mind berserko at Walter showing a photo of me as some kind of lambent balloon - in my view. There was a history - we used to ask each other permission to photo. review photos, back in the olden days of a2k - and a sense of insult, as I hated to look like a balloon. I went after Walter for days and days, very enraged. You think I'm a bitch now, I was wild. People disagreed with me, sometimes flailing re just how despicable I was. Walter and I have managed to come out of that time still communicating. (I think Walter knows photography, and we can talk.) Just after that, he wouldn't post any personal photos ever ever ever. Let's say we both learned this and that, and we have both relaxed somewhat.
S0, along comes Shewolf the photographer snapping me as the woman I once photo'd as Juana un diente, or una diente, I forget, in Guatamala.
Wrinkle city. That's ok.
I still prefer strongly that people ask before they post, and in a gallery, would demand signoff.
I did ask before I posted stuff on the later a2k terrace gathering, got a yes, and was dumped on for posting by a guy who said yes.
This is all pretty much piffle here, but I've watched it get heavy in gallery life.