@ossobuco,
On my dad, he was, as I understand it, head of photography for the entire army air force in the WWII years. That might not be true, I was a kid when I learned this stuff. Plus, you know, Ronald Reagan... (snort).
I've a photo of my father yawning in a pentagon meeting. I should get my scanner going, as there are probably biggies around that table. I think that was when he had just flown in on the enola gay, from kwaijalein, sorry re spelling.
He was the first person I knew against our role in viet nam, while also having taken me, young, to see Kennedy landing in LA in an early effort to become president. Also the first anti kennedy in our house.
Patriotism is not measured in flag waving. Trust me on that.
T