'i want to go home"

I wish humans were as kind to their loved ones as we do for our pets when there is no hope and need to be relieved of their pain.

Quality of life is more important to me than just breathing. It's hard to let go but it shows more love than self interest. The only things we can leave on this earth are memories. If we've behaved well toward people, the memories will be good.

BBB

Linda Fleming: Wash. State Suicide Law Sees First Death
by RACHEL LA CORTE
May 22, 2009

OLYMPIA, Wash. " A 66-year-old woman with terminal cancer has become the first person to die under Washington state's new assisted suicide law, an advocacy group said Friday.

Linda Fleming, of Sequim, died Thursday night after taking drugs prescribed under the "Death with Dignity" law that took effect in March, said Compassion & Choices of Washington.

The organization said Fleming was diagnosed last month with advanced pancreatic cancer. She would have had to have been diagnosed by two doctors as terminal in order to qualify for assisted suicide.

The group said Fleming died at home with her family, her dog and her physician at her bedside.

"The pain became unbearable, and it was only going to get worse," Fleming said in a statement released by the organization.

A physician prescribed the medication, but under the law, patients must administer the drugs themselves.

Chris Carlson, who campaigned against the law with the Coalition Against Assisted Suicide, said the death was "a sad occasion and it diminishes us all."

The new law was approved in November with nearly 60 percent of the vote, making Washington the second state in the nation with voter-approved assisted suicide legislation. It is based on a 1997 Oregon measure, under which about 400 people have ended their lives.

Under both states' laws, physicians and pharmacists are not required to write or fill lethal prescriptions if they are opposed to the law. Some hospitals have opted out of the law, which precludes their doctors from participating on hospital property.

In December, a Montana district judge ruled that doctor-assisted suicides are legal. That decision, based on an individual lawsuit rather than a state law or voter initiative, is before the Montana Supreme Court, but doctors there are allowed to write prescriptions for life-ending drugs pending the appeal. It is not known if any have done so because no reporting process was in place.

In Washington, any patient requesting fatal medication must be at least 18, declared competent and be a state resident.

Two doctors would have to certify that the patient has a terminal condition and six months or less to live. The patient must also make two oral requests, 15 days apart, and make a written request witnessed by two people.

As of Friday, the state Department of Health has received six forms from pharmacists saying they have dispensed the life-ending drugs.

The state also has received five forms from individuals requesting medication to "end my life in a humane and dignified manner," and five doctors have completed forms complying with the rules of the new law.

The Health Department will report annually on the ages, genders and illnesses of the people who file forms with the state, but the individual forms people complete are exempt from state open records laws.

On the Net:

Center for Health Statistics, Death with Dignity Act, http://www.doh.wa.gov/dwda/formsreceived.htm

Compassion & Choices of Washington, http://www.candcofwa.org

The last weeks of my brother's life, I found myself wishing this could end for him. A certain line had been crossed. There was nothing else to wish for.

yeah, I hear that clearly.

Bugger.

no, it's not really, it's a process of life which is always fragile (at its best) it's mostly a matter of how we respond. My current response is "let it pass" which is much like how I view my own life. I love my brother and my mother very much but I can't change their situation, my only alternative is to accept it for what it is. At the moment I think I can do that.

Dys, I am glad that you got to speak to your mother. I know it meant a lot to
you and even though she hasn't been part of your life for a number of reason
and years, there is still a very special bond you share with her. Keep the
channels of communication open to both - your mother and brother!!

Getting older surely is not for sissies!

I like your philosophy, dys. It's that way with a lot of things in life, I've found that are out of our control.

I hope you and your family are at peace. [...]

Well, much less buggerish then!!!