If I was a kind and thoughtful soul

well, damn.

Your aunt couldn't be there at an arranged time to expedite the call?

When my mom was dying, she was under care by a live in nurse. This was a time that we shared some really great memories and cried on each others shoulder.

My mom was one of those women like thepeople of the MAuri where, when an elder one became infirm they were taken up to a mountain to die. Theres a story that became a play about a woman whose son took her up to the mountain and all the way up, the mother was worried that the son wouldfind his way back home safely. That was the kind of woman my ma was. Everyone else came first and it was (sadly) only at the very end of her life did she and I share some really great quality time.

I hope you get a chance to do the same dys.

My thoughts also go to the Hamburgers.

Bob, I'm sorry - for you, your mother and the rest of your family.

I'll speak without caution to say that the father is the cause of big damage.
What dys can do about it now, re access to mother, is not clear to me, not at all my field. Dys is fairly conversant with bureaucracy, and probably has checked.

A very despairing time, very sad.

sorry to hear of this circumstance regarding bob's mother, will keep her in my thoughts with the hamburgers, mr, h, mrs. h and ehbeth

a song for bob and ehbeth's mothers

Hugs and warm wishes for all.