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Mon 2 Mar, 2009 05:28 pm
OK SO IM ENGAGED AND SOON TO BE MARRIED IN A COUPLE OF MONTHS AND ME AND MY FIANCE ARE TALKING ABOUT EVERYTHING NOW AND THE SUBJECT ABOUT RAISING KIDS CAME UP. SHE STARTED TALKING ABOUT IF WE HAVE A GIRL AND MAKE-UP. I SAID AND I BELIEVE THAT SHE SHOULDN'T PUT THAT MUCH MAKE IF NOT ANY MAKE-UP AT ALL TILL SHES AT LEAST IN HIGH SCHOOL. SHE SAYS THAT WHEN SHE IS IN 8 TH GRADE SHE CAN PUT MASCARA, POWDER AND LIPSTICK. I TOLD HER NO ONLY LIP-GLOSS OR A REALLY LIGHT LIPSTICK AND MAYBE A LITTLE BIT OF POWDER. SHE SAYS I'M WRONG AND THAT I'M WRONG. SHE SAYS THAT I'M BEING CHAUVINIST. I DON'T BELIEVE SO BUT I BELIEVE THERE IS A LINE BETWEEN HAVING CHILDREN THINK THEY ARE OLDER THAN THEY ARE ESPECIALLY GIRLS. AM I WRONG SAYING THAT I DON'T WANT MY DAUGHTER WEARING MAKE-UP OR EVEN LIGHT MAKE-UP AT UNTIL SHE GETS INTO AT LEAST HIGH SCHOOL.
@LU2910,
so you're arguing about your future daughters makeup usage
you might have other things to worry about
The best thing to say to your wife to be is: "We'll cross that bridge when we get there."