@DrewDad,
I agree with drewdad on the prep course. We had two classes - that is, two sets of 45 minutes each - on it in my high school back in the day. But later in life, prep courses for my boards were tremendously helpful, so I get the idea. Besides understanding, speed is a factor in some tests.
Things can go too far, so that life gets crazy around this stuff, or I gather so from that NYT article. (Sorry, no link). There are probably a lot of books about this in the chain bookstores, and much online chatter.
I still don't get the counsellor re her gpa. Is a strong A now equivalent to a low B? It doesn't make any sense.