Montana, those first tags weren't at you.
Co-dependent? Bird? Those are expressions of people's concern. I've no idea if fow is a super manipulator, sociopath as positted, or a simple player, though I have an opinion. Some of us don't think you are sophisticated in the wiles of players. That doesn't mean people think you are stupid. If you had wanted to be sophisticated in that, you would have read a lot about it over the years.
No one is trying to push you out, and all posters have a right to make a tag. Tags will tend to pass if they are replaced with others, which they often can be unless they are basic categories, as in, say it's one I know about, Recipes, which is holding so far so good. Lots of us here have had snide tags against us.