Hey Alex, great to see you as well :-D
My reasons for not getting the police involved has nothing to do with my feelings for my bosses. I care about them as much as they care about me, which is not at all. Personally, I feel that any place who treats their people the way they do, should be shut down!
There are 2 reasons why I won't go to the police. The main reason is because I'm afraid the creep will come after me. He has already proven that he likes the taste of revenge and I don't want to live in fear anymore.
The second reason has to do with my survival. My unemployment would seriously be delayed because I would have to get them involved as well and just open up a big can of worms.
One thing I've learned in life is that when there's an action, it usually follows with a reaction.
I think it's best for my well being if I leave this alone. The laws here are just not tough enough and even the people here don't think it much of a big deal. I had women laugh in my face at work after telling them my story. It's as if it's the norm.
I had one woman tell me that I better get use to it because that's how men were
That just blew my mind and I feel like I'm living in the stone ages. Hey, anyone feel like dragging me somewhere by my hair
Anyway, I don't think I'm cut out for this small town stone age stuff, so I think I better head back to the city where people may be crazy, but they're not insane, haha.
What I really need is a normal juob in a normal company that does criminal checks before hiring. The company I worked for before going back to the shop did criminal checks. I was the only female working the graveyard shift with a bunch of guys and nothing like this ever happened there.
No ex cons, no crack heads and no slime bags. I loved that job.
Still working on getting my singing going again :-D