@Walter Hinteler,
Quote:For what period is a maternity/paternity leave paid in the USA?
no, no, no, you don't understand. In America we needed to make a law that employers can't
DISMISS a person for having a baby, or needing to spend some time taking care of a sick child.
http://www.dol.gov/esa/regs/compliance/posters/fmlaen.pdf
lots of people are not covered by even that, as the business must have at least 50 employees to be forced to do the right thing. And my empression is that most people will not take what the law provides because they fear that their employer will screw them if they do.
Americans talk a good game about the importance of families and how kids are our treasure, but the actions don't match. We also don't support marriage, as couples are hugely finance and time stressed, are are not supported in the culture because as soon as problems arise the majority advise to the couple is to end the marriage (you can do better, you don't deserve THAT, you can't leave you kids in THAT situation, you should leave).
re child care:
Quote:Childcare for babies and toddlers
While your child is in the baby and toddler stages, you'll pay more. That's because kids this age need more hands-on care and so the center must hire more caregivers. With an average of $8,150 per year ($679 a month), daycare costs for babies and toddlers in the United States range from $4,388 to $14,647 a year ($366 to $1,221 monthly), according to data from the National Association of Child Care Resource & Referral Agencies (NACCRRA).
Topping the charts with costs over $11,000 a year ($917 a month) for baby and toddler daycare are the following states, beginning with the most expensive: Massachusetts, Washington, D.C., Minnesota, New York, Wisconsin, Washington, Pennsylvania, and Maryland.
And at the bottom of the charts, here are the states with daycare costs below $6,000 a year ($500 a month) for baby and toddler daycare, beginning with the least expensive: Louisiana, Kentucky, Mississippi, Nebraska, Texas, Idaho, North Dakota, South Carolina, Kansas, and Alabama.
Childcare for preschoolers
Costs for daycare for preschool-age children are generally lower, averaging $6,423 a year ($535 a month). Depending on where you live, you'll pay anywhere from $3,794 to $10,920 a year ($316 to $910 a month).
The most expensive states for preschool-age care in a childcare center, with costs over $8,000 a year ($667 a month), beginning with the most expensive, are Washington, D.C., Massachusetts, New York, Minnesota, Oregon, Connecticut, Washington, and New Jersey.
The least expensive states for preschool-age care in a childcare center, with costs of less than $5,000 a year ($417 a month), beginning with the least expensive, are Mississippi, Kentucky, Louisiana, Kansas, Missouri, Oklahoma, Idaho, West Virginia, South Carolina, and Alabama
http://www.babycenter.com/0_how-much-youll-spend-on-childcare_1199776.bc
The federal minimum wage is about $15.000 yearly, the median American wage is about $43.000, you do the math. Keep in mind that the median wage is skewed because for three decades that rich have been getting richer and the poor have been getting poorer and the middle class has been dissolving (attempting to stay in the game by piling on family debt, but we all know that
THAT **** has just hit the fan) so the situation for the bottom half of American families is even worse than the stats allude to.