@spendius,
Quote:I can't understand why homosexuals want to marry. Marriage is one long obstacle course of trial and tribulation. Nobody who wishes to be free to do what they want would ever dream of getting "hitched". Isn't "hitched" when a stupid animal which you have ridden into town gets tied to a rail while you go in a saloon for a drink and has to stand there patiently and be ready to carry you back to your shack. A wife is a device you screw on the bed and it does the housework.
I'm gonna frame that one! I've never heard that one before and that's just too ...I don't know - let's just say-I don't think you're really that far off the mark in a lot of relationships.
(And he's not mysoginistic in saying that and I'm not mysoginistic in laughing - it's reality sometimes).
Quote:Nobody who wishes to be free to do what they want would ever dream of getting "hitched".
Agreed. But just because you and I feel that way doesn't mean everyone does and people who wish to get married should have the equal opportunity to limit their freedoms if they so choose.
Quote: I presume societies which did persecute homosexuals (males--I've not heard of persecuting females) felt they were threatened by them.
Yes, fear. I'm sure that's at the bottom of a lot of discrimination, persecution and genocide. Fear is often masked as rage and when the balance of power is skewed in favor of the fearful- that's when fear becomes dangerous for whoever's feared.
Quote:Do you agree that people who are gay should be able to live wherever they want to live?
No. The question is ridiculous.
Why?
My apology was not dilute - it was sincere. The rest of my post has to do with what Christ mandated people who would call themselves Christians in the world should be and do. I don't think it's good Christian practice to discriminate and look at people with scorn,causing them difficulty and harm (unless they're cruel- then you SHOULD!).
And I know there are other 'instructions'. But I think the mandate to love your neighbor and do unto others as you'd have done unto you- supercedes anything and everything else he said- even that stuff about upholding the law that everyone likes to trot out to show how stupid Christians are for reading the Bible.
Quote:How much language do you wish to reinvent. How many euphemisms do you want to use?
In the end, if it were just language- I'd agree. But to some people it's not. It's about acceptance of who and what they are.
And this speaks to Genovese's post on the self-hate that's endemic in the gay population.
It's complicated. Some people hate themselves instinctively, because they are different. I should think it'd be a very difficult thing - to be gay. But what do you do if you are?
And I don't think a kind and just society heaps more disapproval through law and legislation deepening the pit of despair that knowing they are different, throws some people into. What possible good can that do our society?
Quote:I'm not a fan of thinking past societies were stupid. I think that is an error. I would expect Darwinians to think it an error too.
Maybe they didn't understand the role to be played by homosexuals in Darwin's model. Maybe homosexuals are a built in method of population control.
Quote:I don't buy the "love" argument. It is too easily asserted.
What is easily asserted? Love? By gay people who are fighting the ******* laws of the land to have their feelings recognized. You call that easy?
Maybe it's hard for you to imagine two men loving each other. Maybe that's the problem.
But on the flipside - imagine that they really do. Put yourself in the role of someone who really loves another person and everyone is telling you that you shouldn't or can't, and they'll make your life a living hell if you do...what are you gonna do?
I would hope you wouldn't have to stay in the closet your entire life. I think that'd be the saddest thing in the world.