@Foxfyre,
Foxfyre wrote:
I hadn't thought of that before but you may have hit on another unintended consequence of good intentions. When we put the troll on ignore, we don't see his racist, offensive, insulting, misogynist or whatever posts any more and don't speak up to denounce them when they are directed at some hapless member. So indeed the member on the receiving end may think that the others are tolerant of the offensive post.
Hmmm. Any way around that problem? Or should it matter?
Well:
a. I have no idea if it is true at all that this is occurring.
b. I don't know about anyone else, but I find that because I CAN ignore, I don't get at all upset if i take the occasional peek, and I might well comment if someone has said something really disgusting....ONCE. (This has unexpected benefits that give joy.....I did that on a thread a while back, and found one troll joyfully greeting another, I found it very funny. I also do it because there is one troll who actually has expertise in a particular area, and if I see it posting in a thread relative to its expertise, I have a look and see if it is posting rationally for a change.)
c. I really, truly think that ignoring them works in the long run. They can't really hurt us, so it's not like real bullying in that respect....which is, I think, a major flaw in Bill's argument....IF WE DON'T READ THEM, THEY GENERALLY CAN'T HURT US....IT'S THE INTERNET, not a school playground or a pub or a country being abused by a tyrant......
I really cannot imagine a better way of ruining a troll's day than not attending to them. REALLY!!!!
Look, I work with kids being really bullied, and, if it is via words, I can help them with really creative methods to let the bully know, REALLY know, that they are not achieving the desired effect. Some of these techniques are too powerful for most situations, because the bully gets so enraged by being deprived of their effect that that they can literally go ballistic, and attack physically. They go absolutely NUTS.
THAT is how horrible such sad folk feel when they do not hurt anyone.