well Chai meant that SHE was the one filing.. but that doesnt mean that SHE is the entire reason things have not happened.
It does take TWO to marry ya know
it could very well be him that says.. ok , lets do it..
They go file. her name is first. his is second
they get home and he starts whinning like a baby about wanting to sew some seeds before he commmits
she slaps him
he leaves
comes back smelling like perfume
she kicks him out
he lives in his car
she follows him
she takes him home bathes him and loves him
he says no more
she says ok
he says lets do it
she says ok
they go get another license
her name is first
his is second
they get home and his other girl friend calls him and he says
I cant get married
she says ok
they seperate
he goes whoring around
she is clueless
he comes back two months later with an even bigger engagment ring
she says ok
he says lets do it
they go get another license.............