Here are a few of the movies I believe had a profound affect on me growing up:
Coming Home
Missing
Under Fire
Platoon
Apocalypse Now
Fight Club (book first, movie second)
A Certain Kind of Death
I really don't want to die now. And especially without family.
A Certain Kind of Death
How about
Sliding Doors
He loves me, He loves me not
The last Kiss
It just made me think........