@dagmaraka,
												Okay, but "sameness" inolves social relationship with respect to reporting, not individual experience per se. We can never place ourselves inside the body of the other. We can only 
infer commonality of experience. 
"Academicizing"  (or seminar philosophy) is indeed without use for most everyday interactions because we share "reality" through a common language and common physiology, and that reality is usually a dynamic flow.  The focus on "reality" only arises in 
disputes  which interrupt the flow.