@JLNobody,
Yes, there's a problem in conveying the
dissipation of I/We. Such an idea is predominantly experiential rather than intellectual.
However, Capra (et al) does give a possible model when he speaks of
hierarchies of organization: "Life" ( aka "cognition")is structured at ascending levels...cells...organisms...societies....>. Indviduals at one level become components at the next level. There was a good TV programme recently on swarms of ants etc which likened them to brain cells contributing to "swarm decisions".
A second potentially helpful model is one involving Bohm's concept of "implicate order". Non-locality of particles is taken by him to imply that what appear to be "individuals" are in fact dispersed instances of "a holistic consciousness". He explains this by analogy to folding paper, cutting a
single hole, which then appears as
multiple holes when the paper is unfolded. The Yin-Yang principle allows us to inderstand that even the first hole is only "a hole" by virtue of its surrounding contrast of "non holeness". Thus both "self/other" and "self/not self" are unified.