Hey (((BigRedDude))) - hugs to you love.
You have a lot weighing on your mind hun - and I do understand that - I know how "systems" can fail - especially families and children.
You are doing so well going back to school - focus on what you do for your future darlin ' - which in turn will help your daughter with her future. Unfortunately, kids do decide which way they wish to go, for whatever reasons - and it's not easy to be at a distance. Again - I go through that daily with my BigBoy - you just have to do the best you can, parenting them as positively as you can and showing them the right way forward. Obviously, I don't know what it is like for you - other than how you have described - but I do know from my personal perspective that the rage I have for the system and the lack of support within the systems - whether it is for parenting and emotional, financial or other - well, it all but destroyed me - hence I found A2K and friends here who would listen ... and not judge. I can put the rage to the back now for the most part - though it does surface regularly...
Vent away when you need to hun - try not to let the "past" hold you back - and just know we're here if you wanna yabber and have a good shout. I do it all the time - so do others.
Big hugs to you...
Missy - bless the S-boy and his..... tummy problem. (Hot water bottle on the tummy sometimes helps the littluns too!) :wink: Oh, love him - glad it wasn't anything more serious - but pain is pain - especially when you're a little fella. Hope the lax's work soon.
My little S-boy is doing well - we've been very busy today - he has been outside breaking up all the wood for the fire - we left the saws behind at Links Tor so.... he had to rest the wood against the wall and then jump on it to snap it. He was having a ball and worked off a lot of energy. Gosh - kids have neverending energy. We've kept going for hours and I now have a lounge where you can see the floor (sofa is covered in paperwork - but hey) - result!!!!! It looks nice in here. Feet are up.... little sore... but that's coco.
Tulip is still NOT online - British Telecom did NOT show up - now Thursday apparently. Little fella and I are going up to her tomorrow as F-boy and Tulip have a school thing to attend in the evening- so S-boy and I are going to keep S-girl company.... and play with Star puppy. Tulip is doing k - getting thru the days and... well, there's some laughter in her voice now.
JPB - sorry you got hit by the storms - hope all are k and you have managed to get the car shopping started. Love and hugs to K. (is she nagging yet!!!!!) (so laughing)
Special Agent - good to see you hun - hugs to you and yours - and glad you weren't bashed by the storms.
Babbling Girl - my brook has quietened down but expecting it to rise to the occasion tomorrow
(why am I only talking about a river
- it's 10pm, past the watershed now - I can be a little naughty now). We are due for BIG rain tomorrow..... mmmm.... nervous titter..... I will get used to the rise and fall of the river in time.
QueenDev - tiara on head and crack on with the books girlie - Pablo sounds delightful - pics when you can hun - would love to see him. Hope all is good with Thing 1 & 2 and that hubby is doing k. Posivibes his way and..... have you taken a good pat on the back recently from the back-patter in the kitchen. If not... on you go - you deserve a pat at least 3 times a day. :wink:
Stevie - you are a treasure - don't be
- Ship's Awards are well deserved!
BEAgle and Indeedee - hope you had big sleeps and it will be a little warmer there for you both today. See you soon
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Lovin' y'all x