@McTag,
Unfortunately no, we live the furthest out and to ask someone to come pick him up from the village where the school bus pick up is, they'd have to drive an additional 8+ miles... at 7.15am. That's a big ask on these roads and in this weather. He usually stays 2 nights a week at school. So, it's an additional 1 or 2 nights - except last Sunday he had to stay over as they had play rehearsals and this Sunday he has play rehearsals so needs to stay over, but he had physio last Monday so stayed at his Dad's on Monday night. His school winter concert is on Tuesday and he has the play Thurs and Fri night.
My Mom isn't happy to do the school morning runs (that's a 20 mile round trip early morning - they're in Tavi as you know) - and it's not reasonable to ask her ... and his Dad has been away a lot - but even when he's here, ... it's not his "job"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Seriously! Getting him to do the physio on Monday was a problem even tho it's where he lives! You would not believe the errrrrrrr conversation we had earlier on about picking S up from school tonight!
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To be honest tho, with the roads as they have been, I wouldn't want him on the school bus. It's a
long trip to school to N.Devon on tiny roads and in these conditions... no way do I want him on the school bus so, in a way, it's been good that's he's been staying at school - and they do have snow and had lots of it.
S-boy is just mad at me - he's tired, cranky, just had his exams, is worried about me (tho he has no idea what happened at the weekend) and... he's a teenager. Sometimes he just wants a normal mom, he's a little bored of surgeries and crahp - he doesn't complain often but his temper sometimes get's the better of him and he says some things he regrets then. It's not often I need to complain about his behaviour... but I'm tired, cranky and middle-aged
He breaks up Thursday week... if I can drive before that, I only need my right foot as my car is auto, then I will have him come home and can take him to the bus and pick him up. So, it's just this week he needs to stay... and... there's diddly I can do about it no matter how angry he is or unfair he thinks it is. He has the Candlelit Service next Wed which he loves - so he'll prolly have to stay Wed night - they break up at 2pm on the Thurs.