Egocentricity is the mother of compassion
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I believe innate compassion is un-learned as the egocentric empathy of childhood sours, exception by exception, into new rules that dehumanize others. Most of the new rules come from our cultures and cultural experiences (not the best in most cultures).
So, as we mature, does an abstracted "compassion" then replace the earnest egocentric childish perception that all are one-with-ones-self?
Do we then learn compassion for _other_ as one of many pragmatic habits or states of mind?
Alternatively, and for me a path to genuine compassion, we can learn to reinstate an inner perceptual "feed" that maturity normally blocks with an either/or view of ourselves versus everyone/everything else.
Wow. Sounds like Hegel's _Phenomenology of Mind_. (Translating geist as mind addresses this more profoundly and openly to scientific discovery than geist as "spirit.") The consciousness does not have to turn in on itself and make kooky infantile, insensitive and belligerent adults practicing conditional and variable compassion.
But we may have to learn to avoid that cultural and developmental fate deliberately. True compassion could be one fruit of a broader learning process.
Bottom line, I say compassion is not learned didactically; rather, it endures from childhood or develops as a gut-realization of the simultaneous universal and particular in ourselves and everyone/everything else.
Learners have to become aware of themselves as agents in the universe to gain mature non-pragmatic "compassion," but some folks for whatever reason never turn off that childish egocentric sense of connection that others lose to their intellect and social bruises. And probably most people keep open lines of compassion around some topics or experiences that "speak" to them, and lose them in others, for lack of spiritual pursuit in self-awareness.
-S