I like "to reconnect the individual with Reality" and that would be my personal perspective too but it is so rarely the case when criticism of religion is the focus. Even within religion, the mystical elements have never been at the forefront, or very rarely, at least against the backdrop of the orthodox streams. Even so, I still don't intrinsically see fault in more orthodox religions regarding day to day ethics and the organisation of man but as above, it is the motive which defines the practice, this seems to be the core of a great issue.
This topic, concerning the practicalities of religion, reminds me of what I read of Confucianism, is this even considered a religion or a philosophy? It's inspiration seems to be deep in the practicalities of life anyway. From what I understand one of the main things Confucius did in respect to his time/culture was to move the focus from Heaven to Earth so the chief concern was not what was expected of us from far above but what is right for the community. So the key relationship moves from between man and god to just man, give and take, rather than universal authoritarian, submission. It's actually quite specific about the key relationships there are like between child/parent, ruler/subject, old/young and the different general attitudes/stances the individual in question should take like reverence, respect and benevolence but the key to it all seems to be that those that carry greater power/responsiblity in any relationship cannot act as if the position carries built in pre-requisites, authority must be earned.
The idea that I think flows right the way through the different concepts in Confucianism and maybe through Chinese culture as a whole (?) is that you are never alone when you act, apart from human relationship there is no self, the self is constructed through interaction and it's a point where upon lives meet. The culmination of Confucianism as I've read and also had it described to me can be considered with an analogy (which I really like) of an eagle soaring and gliding on the turbulent air current. Human relationships are the atmosphere through which it flies and confucianism (a religion...) is the art of adjusting ones wings to the elusive/never ending goal of being "a more complete human being". Then there is this extension from the self via relationship and growing empathy to include family, community, nation and humanity escaping the clutches of selfishness and nationalism as you develop.
(Apologies if I am mistaken regarding any of the above, I don't know much of the specifics involving Confucianism but the "practicalities of religion" just screams for a mention of it)
Does anyone else find it interesting how the Chinese (as I understand) seem to very happily (and wisely I might add!) blend the religions of Taoism, Buddhism and Confucianism in their day to day lives to suit the situation/motive?