Must have missed this thread the first time around.
As as already been said, the wrong shoe puts the entire body out of alignment.
The best shoes mimic being barefoot with a very flexible sole.
You know what?
I've had various men in my life tell me I looked good while I was wearing high heels. But, they weren't telling me that based on the shoe, it was the entire package.
I would wear heels when I wore dresses, but I haven't put on a dress in 20 years.
Heels with pants?
That is totally not necessary. Even with really great dress pants, you should be able to find fabulous shoes that are either flat or only have a small heel.
I'd like to hear from more men as to their opinion of women wearing heels.
Does it really make that much difference to you?
BTW, these are what a ballet dancers feet look like. Pretty sexy huh?