Sun 17 Sep, 2017 09:50 am - You are on a slippery slope to hurt and pain.....please get out before you cause more damage. You are in what I call the chemical haze stage and already addicted so it will be hard to stop. If you... (view)
Tue 7 Apr, 2015 11:24 am - I want to hear from parents to know if having kids completed them? Is it everything you thought it would be? Did you find purpose and do you think you would have no purpose without kids? Are there... (view)
Wed 20 Aug, 2014 12:40 am - I found it very hard for quite a long time, but now I'm out the other side I feel much stronger than before it all. When you succeed giving something up it adds a layer to you and makes... (view)
Tue 19 Aug, 2014 01:00 pm - Thanks Germlat. I was the person who started this thread. Quite a lot of people have added their own stories along the way. (view)
Tue 19 Aug, 2014 08:14 am - It was over 2 years ago. How long am I supposed to wait before putting things behind me and moving on? I am in a happy, stable relationship. What better environment to bring a child into? (view)
Mon 18 Aug, 2014 12:14 pm - Hi Martie. I feel for you. I know how lonely and painful it is. You are literally coming down off a drug, so give yourself a break. Be kind to yourself, buy some treats, cry...but not too much,... (view)
Mon 18 Aug, 2014 12:09 pm - Hi Guru. That is an interesting take on it. I'm not sure what the truth is, and have accepted I'll never know. I know what it meant to me though and I will always remember the sadness. It... (view)
Wed 14 May, 2014 11:08 am - To be honest there was an issue in my marriage because I was the main earner supporting my artistic husband. This meant long hours for me and not much seeing the good life I should because I was... (view)
Wed 14 May, 2014 01:09 am - It is easy to judge. I was faithful for 12 years and had a 5 week slip up with someone I had known for two years. I was 32 at the time. It's been 2 years since the affair and I have a... (view)
Tue 15 Oct, 2013 12:12 pm - I wrote this post over a year ago. With hindsight I think Olivier is right, my world is much nicer than his and I had a lucky escape. His wife literally had him by the balls because he was made... (view)
