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When has religion irked you personally and why?

 
 
dlowan
 
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Reply Tue 13 Jan, 2004 05:50 am
Yep - power without accountability sucks
In lots of places....
Good people still exist in such organisations - and they can do good.
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gozmo
 
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Reply Tue 13 Jan, 2004 07:01 am
Wilso wrote:
I can't go on. Considering the effect these tales having on me, I can't even begin to imagine the suffering all these children experienced at the hands of these monsters.These stories exist in the thousands.


Grow up
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Phoenix32890
 
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Reply Tue 13 Jan, 2004 07:06 am
Wilso- Abuse of children, wife beating and other heinous acts have been going on for centuries. The only difference is that now the acts are smeared all over the media. This is a GOOD thing, because now our civilization is more enlightened and capable of dealing with the problems. Years ago, it would have been swept under the rug.
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gozmo
 
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Reply Tue 13 Jan, 2004 07:10 am
Wilso,

Your last post was self deluding. You spend so much time posting other people's accounts of these matters I begin to wonder about your fascination. OK if you've been a victim get it out and begin to get over it. That is the only acceptable excuse for your vitriol. I'm not surprised you cannot cope, your obsession is unhealthy.
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Frank Apisa
 
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Reply Tue 13 Jan, 2004 07:13 am
dlowan wrote:
The prejudiced and grossly generalizing nature of your comments is making me wish them to be deleted to preserve MY non-catholic and non-christian sensibilities, Wilso.


Good observation.

There are times when I wish some people were not on my side.
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gozmo
 
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Reply Tue 13 Jan, 2004 07:25 am
Phoenix,

I related (on another thread) how as children we protected our parents from knowledge of an active paedophile and how when he was discovered the police were not involved. This was a neighbour who had been active for years. The fact is in the fifties, sixties and seventies these matters were often covered up by many groups including the church. It is unfortunate that such was the case and I'm glad things have changed. The churchmen who failed the church ( the church being the faithful in my appreciation of catholic theology) are paying dearly for their failure.
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Phoenix32890
 
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Reply Tue 13 Jan, 2004 07:31 am
gozmo- I can remember, as a young teenager (about 13), talking to a girlfriend about a mutual friend. What she told me, I realize now, indicated that the other girl's father was molesting his daughter. at the time, I kind of shrugged. I don't think that I could have even begun to understand the ramifications of what my friend was telling me.

I suppose that one of the advantages of the precocious sexuality that you see now, is that the girls would have understood what was happening to their friend, and reported it.
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Montana
 
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Reply Tue 13 Jan, 2004 07:37 am
I also remember when a few kids I knew were molested (not by their parents) and even when their parents were told it was kept quiet. That stuff was kept very hush hush back then.
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gozmo
 
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Reply Tue 13 Jan, 2004 07:43 am
I had no idea of the harm and learned only this year of the suffering it caused one of my sisters. She spoke to my mother about it for the first time last year just after her 60th bithday.
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Phoenix32890
 
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Reply Tue 13 Jan, 2004 07:48 am
Montana- I don't think that many of the young people today can conceive of a time when just about all of sexuality was something that was not discussed in polite company.

I remember a girl who lived a few blocks from me. It was alleged that she had been raped, and that, in the kids' minds, somehow tainted her. She was whispered about, and pointed at, although I don't think that anybody really knew all the details. That was just the way it was, back then.
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Montana
 
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Reply Tue 13 Jan, 2004 07:49 am
That is so sad gozmo.
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Montana
 
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Reply Tue 13 Jan, 2004 07:51 am
Phoenix32890 wrote:
Montana- I don't think that many of the young people today can conceive of a time when just about all of sexuality was something that was not discussed in polite company.

I remember a girl who lived a few blocks from me. It was alleged that she had been raped, and that, in the kids' minds, somehow tainted her. She was whispered about, and pointed at, although I don't think that anybody really knew all the details. That was just the way it was, back then.


That's right. As if there was shame put on the victim. Very sad.
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Phoenix32890
 
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Reply Tue 13 Jan, 2004 07:54 am
Montana- The peculiar thing was, that it never occurred to the kids that this girl had been hurt, and needed support and empathy.
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Montana
 
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Reply Tue 13 Jan, 2004 08:07 am
I know what you mean Phoenix. Seems so cold.
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Wilso
 
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Reply Tue 13 Jan, 2004 11:13 pm
gozmo wrote:
Wilso,

Your last post was self deluding. You spend so much time posting other people's accounts of these matters I begin to wonder about your fascination. OK if you've been a victim get it out and begin to get over it. That is the only acceptable excuse for your vitriol. I'm not surprised you cannot cope, your obsession is unhealthy.


There's nothing more self deluding than Catholic apologists for paedophiles.

Why don't you grow up, and also pull your head out of the sand and look at the reality of the organisation you support, probably with your money as well as your mind.
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Wilso
 
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Reply Tue 13 Jan, 2004 11:15 pm
And if my posts about Catholic paedophiles have upset you to this point, then I suggest you stay away from this thread pal, 'cause you ain't seen nothing yet.
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cicerone imposter
 
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Reply Tue 13 Jan, 2004 11:17 pm
Wilso, Most religions has a special hold on people that goes beyond logic or ethics. It won't be found in defenders of the 'faith.'
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Wilso
 
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Reply Tue 13 Jan, 2004 11:18 pm
Quote:
800 Church Abuse Cases Filed in Calif.


By GILLIAN FLACCUS
Associated Press Writer

January 6, 2004, 9:16 AM EST


LOS ANGELES -- About 800 people across California took advantage of a 12-month window last year to file molestation lawsuits against the Roman Catholic Church, according to lawyers for the plaintiffs.

Negotiations over the claims, they said, could yield one of the largest clergy abuse settlements in the nation's history.

The initial estimate came as the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops prepared Tuesday to announce how well its 195 dioceses have followed the church's 2-year-old policy created in response to the clergy sex abuse scandal.

About 500 of the cases are against the Archdiocese of Los Angeles, the nation's largest, while another 175 are spread among the dioceses of Orange, San Diego and San Bernardino, said attorney Ray Boucher, whose office is handling filings for 320 plaintiffs in Southern California.

Boucher has said a settlement with the Archdiocese of Los Angeles could surpass the Archdiocese of Boston's $85 million settlement with alleged victims, currently the largest in the country.

In Northern California, about another 125 cases were filed.

In some cases, the dioceses aren't yet sure of the total number of lawsuits they face. At least one diocese was still being served with new lawsuits Monday, five days after the official filing deadline of Dec. 31. The Diocese of Monterey sent paralegals to several counties Monday to try to tally the lawsuits against it, a spokesman said.

The Archdiocese of Los Angeles was still sorting through its cases, officials said.

"But we have a great desire to deal with these claims in mediation and try to reach a settlement for all claims involved," said Tod Tamberg, spokesman for the archdiocese.

The flood of litigation is the result of a California law that took effect Jan. 1, 2003, lifting for one year the statute of limitations for molestation lawsuits.

Previously, alleged victims could sue only until their 26th birthday or three years after a time they could show they discovered they had emotional problems linked to molestation.

Tamberg said many of the claims of sexual molestation brought against the church during the past year are "exaggerated,and some are demonstrably false."
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Wilso
 
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Reply Tue 13 Jan, 2004 11:21 pm
UK'S HEAD OF ROMAN CATHOLIC CHURCH
COVERS UP FOR PAEDOPHILE

PROTECTING THE CHURCH MORE IMPORTANT THAN PROTECTING CHILDREN

Britain's most senior Roman Catholic, the Archbishop of Westminster, was under attack yesterday for allowing a known paedophile to continue working as a priest.

Despite repeated warnings of the danger posed to children by Father Michael Hill, Archbishop Cormac Murphy-O'Connor appointed the pervert as chaplain to Gatwick - where he abused a youngster who missed his flight and wandered into the airport chapel for comfort.

The full extent of the Archbishop's involvement in the scandal emerged after the church admitted secretly paying compensation to two victims of Hill, who was jailed for five years in 1997 for sex offences.

The church authorities - who never informed the police of Hill's vile activities - imposed a confidentiality clause on the two brothers after paying them thousands of pounds.

And yesterday the Archbishop, who was warned as long ago as 1983 that the priest was a child abuser, resisted calls for his own resignation.

But the man appointed by the Pope in February admitted: 'Did I make a mistake at that time? The answer is yes, of course I did. But what I understood then, what many others understood then, about this (paedophilia) is very different from now. The Catholic Church take child protection very, very seriously.

'Yes, there were warnings about this man and certain options were put forward to me. The one I took I thought was, in the light of the circumstances, a safe one. I have stated that I did not act irresponsibly, though, if a similar situation arose today of course, I would act differently.'

The Archbishop said that police were not called in because child abuse by priests was at that time regarded 'as more a moral and pastoral problem than a police problem'.

Hill, who abused children for almost 20 years, worked for much of his career under the authority of Archbishop Murphy-O'Connor, who was previously Bishop of Arundel and Brighton.

Shortly after the 66 year old paedophile was jailed the Archbishop insisted he had always acted properly in his management of the priest.

But his actions were heavily criticised yesterday after letters he had received, warning of the continuing risk to children, were revealed.

Hill, who was ordained in 1960, began his assaults in 1977 at St. Teresa's Church in Merstham, Surrey, where he abused a ten-year-old altar boy who called him 'God Father' and committed offences against another ten-year-old.

In 1979 he was transferred to St Edmund's in Godalming, where he continued to assualt altar boys. When he 'got himself involved' with a boarding school, parents alerted the Church about his behaviour.

One mother went to then Bishop Murphy-O'Connor in 1980. 'I told him what was going on,' she said.

'He said he'd deal with it. Little did I know he'd take Father Hill from this parish and put him another. He should never have done that.'

Hill was moved to St. Catherine's in Heathfield, Sussex, where he abused two brothers who were altar boys.

One of his many victims, then aged nine, told BBC Radio Five Live yesterday: 'He used to come in to me, kneel next to my bed and start reading me stories about Jesus.....you know, the Lord....and he used to put his hand under the cover and down my pyjama bottoms. I used to hate it, you know, my worst nighmare.'

In 1983, Hill was ordered to undergo therapy in a home for problem priests in Stroud, Gloucestershire. But two years later Archbishop Murphy-O'Connor made him chaplain at Gatwick - a magnet for youngsters which was once described as the 'Leicester Square of Sussex'. While there, he came into contact with his last known victim when the boy, who had learning difficulties, went to the chapel.

Hill later took him on a pilgramage to Loudres, molesting him in a shower.

Allegations were made against him in 1996 and he was jailed the next year for nine offences of indecent assault and one of gross indecency. Judge Stuart Sleeman said: 'If young boys and parents cannot trust a priest, who can they trust?'

At the time, Archbishop Murphy-O'Connor's predecessor, Cardinal Basil Hume, said: 'Clearly, if the local bishop had known then what is revealed now, a different course would have been taken.'

But Archbishop Murphy-O'Connor said then: 'I first became aware of some general concerns regarding Father Hill in 1981 and required he attend a therapeautic centre. Though the reports from the centre were inconclusive I withdrew his licence to work in parishes. In 1985 he was permitted to return to a limited ministry as an industrial chaplain.

But the letter sent to the Archbishop suggest that far from being 'inconclusive', they made clear Hill represented a continuing danger to children.

In one dated June 28, 1983, Father John Murphy, then head of the centre in Stroud, warned him: 'There is still a risk that Father Hill will act out again, in fact, no one could give any moral certainty that he would not, especially when he is reported to have said he believes the children enjoyed their experience with him.. A high risk does pertain.'

Dr. Seymour Spencer, of Oxford, who had also worked with Hill for the Church, warned the Bishop in a letter dated just six days later that the priest 'could well commit further pederastic acts'.

He said Hill had been 'aloof, even a tiny bit grandious' in response to attempted therapy and needed to be 'steered in some direction of a therapeutic nature if you are to avoid further scandal emanating from Michael.'

Another letter that month from Father Hillary Clark warned: 'Michael is attracted to pre-adult teenagers...there is a need to protect his pastoral contacts, the good name of the priesthood and, not least, himself from the worse consequences of his behaviour, eg police involvement.'

Michelle Elliott, director of the child protection charity Kidscape, said: 'The Archbishop should resign. If he'd taken action as soon as he found out about this man all those other children wouldn't have been abused. My real objection is that he is still not taking responsibility.'

The Church, he said, was still defending itself and the priest instead of the children.

source:
British Newspaper Article
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Wilso
 
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Reply Tue 13 Jan, 2004 11:23 pm
Quote:
Paedophilia in the Catholic Church
by Angus Stickler

An investigation by the Today Programme has uncovered new evidence that Cardinal Cormac Murphy O'Connor the leader of the Catholic Church in England and Wales failed to act appropriately when dealing with paedophile priests in his former diocese of Arundel and Brighton.

The Cardinal is currently the subject of a police inquiry over claims that he covered up the activities of one paedophile priest - Father Michael Hill. Yesterday Hill admitted abusing more children - some of them disabled.

Steven Williams' family were struggling and turned to the Church for help. Their priest was Father Michael Hill. He soon became a trusted family friend. Peter, Steven's son, was - disabled - just eight years old - and an easy target.

Steven describes his son's disabilities thus: "He had cerebral palsy and as a child, he was was much more handicapped than you'd ever guess meeting him now - with a very serious limp - one leg considerably shorter than the other, damage to one arm - he was very poorly co-ordinated in one arm, dyslexic - this kind of thing."

Yesterday Michael Hill, who has already served a five year sentence for abuse, pleaded guilty to six counts of indecent assault against three children aged between 10 and 14 - one of them in a wheelchair.

Two years ago we revealed that Michael Hill's Bishop knew he was a paedophile but allowed him to continue working. That Bishop was Cormac Murphy O'Connor, then in charge of Arundel and Brighton, now the Archbishop of Westminster, Cardinal and Head of the Catholic Church in England and Wales.

Documents from that original investigation confirm what the Bishop knew and when. In July 1981 Michael Hill was sent to a therapeutic centre following concerns about his sexual behaviour. In letters, Cormac describes the matter as "very serious". He questions whether Hill should have the pastoral care of a parish.

Peter and Steven Williams are shocked by this. Because just a few weeks after this date, Hill was allowed to conduct a baptism at a family retreat for disabled children. Cormac, they say, was there.

After Hill's first trial in the 1990s, the then head of the Catholic Church in England and Wales, Cardinal Basil Hume, described the case as "extremely regrettable".

He said: "Clearly if the local Bishop had known then what is revealed now, a different course would have been taken..." According to the documents we've seen, and the parents we've spoken to, the Bishop did know - he was even warned by health professionals that Hill was a dangerous paedophile.

Peter believes that, as the Bishop in charge, Cormac's actions condemned him to four years of abuse. "I feel livid towards him. The sweeping under the carpet as it were was his doing. It put me in the danger that I was in for that whole length of time. "

We've now been told of more allegations relating to eight different priests in Arundel and Brighton - all under the wing of Cormac Murphy O'Connor. Some have been via anonymous letters sent directly to our offices - one via the charity Kidscape.

But we've also been contacted directly by victims, parents and parishioners. In the four cases we've had time to investigate, the victims and parents say they feel betrayed by the Church and the Bishop.

One family went to the Bishop in the mid '90s, after the daughter alleged that she'd been sexually assaulted by a priest. During the police investigation, another victim came forward, but, because the girl had health problems, the case was dropped.

Despite serious concerns about the priest, he returned to his old job. When he left several months later, parishioners were under the impression it was part of a standard diocesan reshuffle. The family were shocked. They say that the Police and Bishop told them that they thought the allegations were true.

This case is mirrored by one in a different part of the diocese. This time it concerns the alleged abuse of a young man with learning difficulties. He was too vulnerable to give evidence and again the case was dropped. This social worker was stunned when he found out the priest had been reinstated.

Church records list this priest at four different parishes in the diocese - he is still holding mass. These allegations were made in the mid '90s around the time when the church bought out new guidelines to deal with sex abuse cases.

Parents, victims and parishioners concede that the church authorities appeared to follow the letter of their law, but not the spirit. Yes - the Police were informed - but despite serious concerns they say the priests were allowed to continue working.

And in the 1980s this appeared to be Church policy. We were told of another priest who parishioners say moved on because of allegations of abuse. But we've also found that Cormac Murphy O'Connor allowed a paedophile from Scotland to work in his diocese.

In the early '80s Father Alan Love assaulted two young boys in Glasgow - he was charged with lewd behaviour but the case never went to court. He - like Hill - was sent away for therapy and then on to Chichester in Arundel and Brighton. Even after admitting the assaults he was allowed to stay. A statement issued by the Church said that Father Love "enjoys the full confidence of his bishop." Peter Williams says this beggars belief.

We could only find one priest in the diocese, other than Michael Hill, who has been removed permanently from parish work - this was Father Christopher Towner who was given a two month suspended sentence for importing child porn in 1988.

Responding to our original investigation, Cardinal Cormac Murphy O'Connor issued a statement apologising to victims. In his defence he said the decisions he made at that time were not irresponsible and that there was a genuine ignorance among bishops, priests, and society at large about the compulsive nature of child abuse.

Cold comfort for the victims of paedophile priests.
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