Thanks for all the thoughful and well-balanced replies. I guess my first reaction is surprise that these guys aren't "really so bad". I don't see TKO or Mesquite marching into the church with an armed guard to escort us to a "reorientation camp". Joe...I'm not so sure

(don't get p...d, Joe).
Y'all would be surprised how many of my friends and neighbors see the humanist left in just that light - satan-loving, God-hating, baby-killing ogres who hate everything we hold dear and can't wait to put us in an insane asylum and throw our children to the clamoring crowd in the street. This is a refreshing experience - actually seeing a human face on the "other side." Is it possible that maybe we aren't Taliban fascists either? I believe I could go fishing with you fellows and have a pleasant day - even if we talked politics and religion.
If we are going to understand each other, and reach some sort of common ground, we have to be honest and not conceal our motives. Joe was dismayed that I was so straightforward about our agenda, and I knew he would be, but it won't contribute to mutual understanding to white wash it. One thing we do have in common - we are both convinced that we are right - and, sadly, that seems to be about where it ends.
In order to reach consensus with y'all we would have to compromise our view that the Bible is the "inerrant Word of God" - and we are terrified to make the least concession in that regard because it would take us out of our comfort zone of black/white absolutes and force us to function intellectually in an environment of uncertainties. When our spiritual "armor" is successfully penetrated, we tend to adopt a similar rigid stance as atheists - no gray areas, you see, just black/white, good/bad, God/Satan, right/wrong.
My own son, having been raised in a black/white world of moral dichotomies, came home form college talking like my friend, Joe Nation. He was just as rigid in his new birth as an atheist as he had been as a christian (and he's no dummy - straight A student). In a few years, he reverted back to christianity - and just as uncompromising and unyielding as always, maybe even worse.
When I browse through some of the blogs on liberal websites, I see the same thing there too - if those folks were to suddenly embrace the Bible they would be, I would venture to say, just as gung-ho and militant as christians as they are as humanists! That's there nature - "OUR" nature, I fear.
With all due respect, I suggest that maybe y'all may be a little too optimistic about human capacity for tolerance and reason. The society that you portray, as a goal, sounds great to me - everyone respects each other and lives together in harmony despite differences in beliefs, morals and general orientation to life. Is this really possible, though? Whether Man was created in the garden or evolved as simply another specie of animal with a powerful brain, don't we have to admit that we seem to be deeply flawed when it comes to our capacity for tolerance, understanding, love and compassion? Doesn't it seem to be, in our gregarious nature as "pack" animals, to demand conformity and try to force our views on others? History would certainly seem to indicate a strong affirmative to those questions. Are secular people somehow vaccinated against that human characteristic?
I did ask my son, during his atheist phase, to keep his views to himself and not humiliate his mother and I in front of our friends and neighbors - to please just stand-up and bow his head at social functions and not make a crusade of his " intellectual awakening" at least here in our community. He complied, out of love and respect for his family, and I would suggest, TKO, that perhaps the atheist basketball player perhaps should have considered the same course. There is something to be said for just 'going along" with the group. The "closet", actually, can be a pretty comfortable place - and it sure makes life easier. You can probably guess that I have non-conformist thoughts from time to time as well.
This country is, and has pretty much always been, a "house divided against itself." But the issues that divide us now are more resistant to compromise than ever before. I am not optimistic about the future - the best hope for tranquility, pragmatically speaking, I guess, would for y'all to succeed in eradicating the influence of the Bible in our society. (There's that black/white dichotomy again

). I think, of course, the Lord is in charge and things will unfold as the prophesies predict. In a way, I hope I'm wrong and y'all are right - because it's not a pretty picture.
I worry most that y'all may be too idealistic and do not have a realistic view of Man himself. You seem to think think he's basically good-at-heart and, sadly, there's not a whole lot of empirical evidence to support that.
Quote:The Bible has remained frozen in time as civilization has moved forward.
Exactly right, Mesquite. And that's why so many people cling to it - an anchor of certainty in am unpredictable and fluid world. The question is, where is "forward" leading us and will we like it there? What did Hamlet say? - something about "bearing the ills we have rather than fly to others we know not of."
Quote:Public officials shall never have to pass a religous test to hold office, etc.
There, in the erudute words of Ronald Reagan, you go again!

"Should never" yes, but they DO undergo a religious test every time they stand for office. Joe ain't gonna vote for no fundamentalist and I sure as heck ain't gonna vote for no atheist! That's the reality, isn't it? We have to be careful not to confuse "should" with "is." A society without idealism would be a bleak place ineed - but, like everything else, it can be two-edged sword.
Warmest regards to you all. Thanks for the time to reply. This is a great conversation. God bless you and your families - - yes, even you, Joe!
Your narrow-minded, mentally-deranged, uncompromising, redneck friend,
Jack