Quote:How about if English-speakers stop using the word "Allah" when referring to the Muslim God, unless it's in an untranslated swath of Arabic? Why not just say "God"? "Allah" is the Arabic word for the self-same God of the Jewish and Christian people.
Regarding the original question, why not just be polite and address god appropriately to the conversation. I might call her Allah if addressing a Muslim, God, Jesus or Holy Spirit if speaking to a Christian and in most cases I refrain from addressing her as "She" in front of sensitive types and stay off the subject completely whenever I can.
I personally feel she could care less what tiny little people call her, whether they call her at all, or what their opinions are. However, people care deeply and it is after all, nice to be polite.
When you can.