Quote:why do you keep saying "i want to be liked" I already said that it can be transformed into "I want to maintain a positive relationship with my students" and i don't know what is wrong with that
In reading back you mentioned "being liked" in just about every post
you made regardless of what you call it afterwards.
Quote:one is the problem of positive atmosphere versus discipline tools
the other one is what kind of person can effect student's character and what kind of character or values are adviced
Discipline is the key to everything and the sooner the kids learn the better for them. You're their English teacher stach, seeing them once or twice a week only, the character of these students should not be your concern, nor would it impact much.
Quote:You seem to take this all too personally. I am interested in academic exchange. I could ask my colleagues and of course, the character and discipline issues of studenst are talked in our offices non stop amost. But here I expect some psychological and education wiz advise. I am really not interested in your supreme being judging of my human quality. Marry me, then talk, okay? Gee you have no clue what kind of person I am as much as I have no clue what kind of person anyone at web forums is. THe internet just cannot replace real experience living with someone or spending some real time with someone. Sozobe already did a great job explaining something about the dynamics of teacher-student tension connected with sexual aspects of being human. And I have been using that info ever since. I haven't even done anything that would not be okay with the basic philosophy of our school. And I really think it is okay with our school to discuss things on the internet no matter how stupid I am and unable to express myself clearly.
You seem to have difficulties controlling your emotions, stach. Yes, I
don't know you, but I do judge you by your written words. I even went
so far as to read your other topics, since you were insinuating not to be understood correctly. You raise a concern in me, a red flag if you will,
because teachers CAN and DO influence their students and judging from
the way you dismiss everyone who has posted here and NOT in
agreement with you, you seem very insensitive to others.
Yes, you haven't done anything that would compromise the basic philosophy of your school, and you may act within the legal boundaries,
however, an all too familiar and chummy behavior towards students
can be most uncomfortable for them, especially you being the authority
figure and them being dependents.
My 11 year old daughter adores her teachers and she recognizes their
authority. I would hate for any teacher - male or female - to take advantage of her trust.