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Is it an insult to say a fat man is fat?

 
 
cjhsa
 
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Reply Fri 9 Mar, 2007 11:36 am
All else equal, fat people use more soap.
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Chai
 
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Reply Fri 9 Mar, 2007 11:37 am
Not if they can't reach as many parts.
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Bi-Polar Bear
 
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Reply Fri 9 Mar, 2007 11:43 am
Chai wrote:
That girl with the fat belly?

How about if when you saw her wearing something other than the short tops, meaning something she looks good in, you say to her.

"Hey, you know, that shirt really flatters you. I really like that style when you where it"

She'll still wear the short tops, but the seed has been planted.

Next time you see her wearing a better choice, say "You really look pretty in that style of top, I think I like it better than the short tops you wear".

You've got to accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative.



Keep up that theme and you'll see her wearing more and more the ones she gets compliments on.

In fact this would also work on thin people, tall people, short people too.


I remember one night in Baltimore the band put 100.00 in a pot and the person who planted a seed in the most big boned whore won the pot. I say big boned because ... well fat..... that's just too crude for me.
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Slappy Doo Hoo
 
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Reply Fri 9 Mar, 2007 11:48 am
I hope you invested that $100 in Microsoft.
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Chai
 
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Reply Fri 9 Mar, 2007 11:54 am
So bear, who got to bang your sister?
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Linkat
 
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Reply Fri 9 Mar, 2007 11:58 am
"So I told her that she should probably wear clothes that were more suitable to her fat belly. She got real angry, but she took my advice. Later she thanked me for it. "

I understand that your intentions were good, but wouldn't it have been better to say something like "you should probably wear clothes that were more suitable your figure. Those short shirts do not look good on you." Unless she was a complete idiot she would get the picture without you insulting her. If she asked why - then I would say because of your belly.

You can still be direct without being insulting.
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Chai
 
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Reply Fri 9 Mar, 2007 12:04 pm
Yeah, direct but not insulting, like asking....

So bear, who got to bang your sister?
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cjhsa
 
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Reply Fri 9 Mar, 2007 12:04 pm
They must be spying on me at work. Someone was just doing a Fat Albert "Hey, hey, hey!" impression. How weird is that?
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Phoenix32890
 
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Reply Fri 9 Mar, 2007 12:09 pm
Linkat- I would put it in a more positive light. If the woman asked me if I liked how she looked in an outfit, I might say, "I think that you look much better in.........................."

Unless the person looked absolutely ridiculous, I would not say anything if she had already bought the outfit. I would only make a point of it, if we were shopping together, and she asked my opinion.
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Lash
 
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Reply Fri 9 Mar, 2007 12:12 pm
"It doesn't accentuate your strengths..."
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Slappy Doo Hoo
 
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Reply Fri 9 Mar, 2007 12:47 pm
Lash wrote:
"It doesn't accentuate your strengths...which are apparently your eating skills."


I agree.
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Linkat
 
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Reply Fri 9 Mar, 2007 01:04 pm
Phoenix32890 wrote:
Linkat- I would put it in a more positive light. If the woman asked me if I liked how she looked in an outfit, I might say, "I think that you look much better in.........................."

Unless the person looked absolutely ridiculous, I would not say anything if she had already bought the outfit. I would only make a point of it, if we were shopping together, and she asked my opinion.


It also depends on your relationship with the person - I probably wouldn't even comment on some one's appearance unless I knew them well. Or use the tacit of only commenting on positive like you say.

If it was some one I knew well I probably would be a bit more direct. The one issue with doing only the postive - the person may never catch on, so if it was some one I knew well I would be more direct. And also it depends on how sensitive that person is.
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gustavratzenhofer
 
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Reply Fri 9 Mar, 2007 01:15 pm
Chai wrote:
gustavratzenhofer wrote:
You're wise beyond your years, Dr. Chai.



That's a lovely dress you have on today Mrs. Cleaver.


:wink:
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patiodog
 
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Reply Fri 9 Mar, 2007 02:04 pm
Quote:
Literature demeans someone as evil or grotesque, not by describing them as thin, but nearly always an evil fat slobs with fat lips, fat fingers, greasy fat oozing evil and degradation.


http://static.flickr.com/29/100276794_548c83c4eb_m.jpg

http://static.flickr.com/37/85865211_5a98054615.jpg

http://us.movies1.yimg.com/movies.yahoo.com/images/hv/photo/movie_pix/paramount_pictures/psycho/anthony_perkins/psycho.jpg

http://www.thetimesharebeat.com/yourworld/images/wwofwest.jpg

http://www.littlereview.com/goddesslouise/art/cuckoo/cuckoo11.jpg

http://www.linternaute.com/sortir/cinema/diaporama/06/pires-mechants-histoire-cinema/liaison-fatale.jpg

http://www.wavecrest.org.uk/wavecrest/Quest%20tease%2010_files/image007.jpg

http://www.scifilm.org/museimages/clockworkorange.jpg

http://images.forbes.com/images/2002/09/13/cruella.gif

http://newsimg.bbc.co.uk/media/images/41223000/jpg/_41223048_villain_hannibal203.jpg






etc.
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Linkat
 
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Reply Fri 9 Mar, 2007 02:08 pm
patiodog wrote:
Quote:
Literature demeans someone as evil or grotesque, not by describing them as thin, but nearly always an evil fat slobs with fat lips, fat fingers, greasy fat oozing evil and degradation.


http://www.wavecrest.org.uk/wavecrest/Quest%20tease%2010_files/image007.jpg



I'm neither grotesque or a fat slob!

I'm I kind of beautiful evil.
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patiodog
 
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Reply Fri 9 Mar, 2007 02:09 pm
(yeah, the "not fat" thing was kind of the point.)
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Bi-Polar Bear
 
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Reply Fri 9 Mar, 2007 02:09 pm
Chai wrote:
Yeah, direct but not insulting, like asking....

So bear, who got to bang your sister?


I heard you the first time but I'm an only child, so you'lll have to find some other way to try and get even with me for that arse of yours that has it's own zip code. You might try eating more fruit beeyotch. Razz

Funniest thing was that Sean our guitarist hooked up with the nastiest big boned whore I've ever seen before or after... but she got all righteous on him and wouldn't give him any......he still takes **** about that and that was 1981.... Laughing
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Bi-Polar Bear
 
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Reply Fri 9 Mar, 2007 02:10 pm
Slappy Doo Hoo wrote:
I hope you invested that $100 in Microsoft.


penicillin....
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Joe Nation
 
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Reply Fri 9 Mar, 2007 02:15 pm
So, not it makes your shoulders look huge, your girls disappear and the rest of you looks like a green ice cream cone?????

Joe(drat)Nation
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patiodog
 
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Reply Fri 9 Mar, 2007 02:17 pm
I'd feel all right if you told me that, Joe.
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