The word 'hate' unfortunately is rapidly losing it's meaning.
This seems to have gotten its' start a while back when frustrated politicians in the Congress , unable to oppose and win policy fights, started calling their opponents 'hateful', accusing them of wanting to starve children, etc.
The term is used today for even mild disagreement or difference of opinion.
This is unfortunate because when acts truly motivated by hatred are perpetrated, they are linguistically compared to 'That boy over there is such a hater. He doesn't like rap.'
Do I hate anyone? Nah.
When someone acts badly, they simply make everyone else around them look good by comparison.