I too am going through a familiar senerio. My sons father has been neglectful or the 3 almost 4 years myson has been on this earth. I am tired of him not visiting, not calling him, not paying support. When my son has been in the hospital and I call him he never shows. My son will call him crying to see him and he doesnt show. This man lives 20 minutes away from us and yet nothing. He has court ordered visitation and yet nothing. Whenever I call him to ask for socks, underware, coat,etc. still nothing. He argues that he loves him but doesnt show it. He misses all the holidays and birthdays. He will say that he will sign over his rights and ten when it comes down to it he refuses. I wanted to know if there was anything that I could do to get his rights revoked.