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Unbelievers: Do you participate in Easter? Christmas?

 
 
Ray
 
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Reply Sat 16 Dec, 2006 03:12 am
I sort of celebrate Christmas, and Boxing Day sometimes Very Happy. I'm an agnostic but I like the whole warm and fuzzy feeling or spirit of the holiday.
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Wilso
 
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Reply Sat 16 Dec, 2006 04:42 am
real life wrote:
Wilso wrote:
real life wrote:

A related question, (maybe you addressed it before and I missed it. If so, I apologize) does the facility where you work have a formal observance of Christmas?

If so, how do you approach that? Just curious. Not trying to pose a trick question or anything on this.


Not automatically. There is a Christmas party that's put on for families, children etc. Those that want to be involved choose to have a small contribution taken out of their pay each fortnight.


Well, it's good that they seem to have made an effort to let those who wish to celebrate do so, while respecting the wishes of those who choose not to as well.

I'm sure you do not celebrate any of the religious aspect of Christmas with your family. However, do you give gifts to your children at Christmas?


Well my wife is pregnant with our first child, but yes, I give presents to the children in our family, and I've also bought my wife something. She won't be reading this. I probably come across as a bit confused to some, as I'm an atheist who is giving his wife a statuette of Buddha for Christmas!
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NickFun
 
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Reply Sat 16 Dec, 2006 09:30 am
Very appropriate. Buddhists do not believe in a transcendent "god". We believe each human being is responsible for his/her own destiny.
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real life
 
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Reply Sat 16 Dec, 2006 10:01 am
Wilso wrote:
real life wrote:
Wilso wrote:
real life wrote:

A related question, (maybe you addressed it before and I missed it. If so, I apologize) does the facility where you work have a formal observance of Christmas?

If so, how do you approach that? Just curious. Not trying to pose a trick question or anything on this.


Not automatically. There is a Christmas party that's put on for families, children etc. Those that want to be involved choose to have a small contribution taken out of their pay each fortnight.


Well, it's good that they seem to have made an effort to let those who wish to celebrate do so, while respecting the wishes of those who choose not to as well.

I'm sure you do not celebrate any of the religious aspect of Christmas with your family. However, do you give gifts to your children at Christmas?


Well my wife is pregnant with our first child, but yes, I give presents to the children in our family, and I've also bought my wife something. She won't be reading this. I probably come across as a bit confused to some, as I'm an atheist who is giving his wife a statuette of Buddha for Christmas!


Hey congrats on the new baby.

I know from the passion you have for kids that he/she will have lots of love in your house.
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Wilso
 
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Reply Sun 17 Dec, 2006 04:15 am
Thankyou. It's such a huge responsibility. I hope I'm up to the task. Luckily I've got a wonderful lady beside me.
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Joe Nation
 
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Reply Sun 17 Dec, 2006 05:57 am
Wilso: what a year you are having. Best wishs.

How nice that the sniping has ceased on this thread and there is talking instead.

Joe(this, from one of the snipers)Nation
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Wilso
 
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Reply Sun 17 Dec, 2006 06:47 am
Not the time of year for sniping-(another atheist pearl?). Christmas makes people feel good even if they aren't christians. That seems to me to be the point of it.
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Shapeless
 
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Reply Sun 17 Dec, 2006 05:25 pm
Pauligirl wrote:
If you pray for rain long enough, it eventually does fall. If you pray for floodwaters to abate, they eventually do. The same happens in the absence of prayers.
Steve Allen


Reminds me of a classic Steven Wright one-liner: "I can levitate birds, but no one cares."
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real life
 
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Reply Mon 18 Dec, 2006 09:12 pm
"I still have my Christmas Tree. I looked at it today. Sure enough, I couldn't see any forests."

--Steven Wright
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real life
 
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Reply Mon 18 Dec, 2006 09:22 pm
maporsche wrote:
real life wrote:
maporsche wrote:
real life wrote:
Wilso wrote:
You're an atheist too real life. You're an athiest when it comes to Thor, Apollo, Zeus, Venus etc.

We just take it one god further than you do!


Good point, Wilso. I agree.


Of course you agree, but you fail to recognize the absurdity of believing in your god above all others. But I forgot, you have been given the divine truth from the holy spirit who has touched your soul in so many unprovable ways.

Why should I believe in Jesus Christ over Zues?


Well, maporsche that is a fair question.

I am sitting at a computer in an office.

If I saw your tomorrow and you said, 'Prove to me scientifically that you were sitting at computer in an office yesterday', I could not do so.

So, it depends on what kind of 'proof' you are referring to.

Scientific proof requires observation, repeatability, falsifiability, etc.

Historical/legal proof is quite another thing. By it's very nature, history and most of the events we experience cannot be repeated. So they are not 'scientifically provable'.

I believe in God because of my experience. No, I can't 'prove' it to you scientifically.

But I pray, and very often I have received that which I prayed for. Frequently these are things I would have had no control or influence over, so it's unlikely that I caused a 'self fulfilling' scenario of any kind.


The answered prayer reason for believing is full of problems RL. 1st, many Christians agree that god answers all prayers. Those answers could be 'yes', 'no', or 'maybe later' (or the various variations of these words). The kicker is that god doesn't tell you his answer, so you don't know if god is really answering anything.

Say my mother falls ill and the doctors give her a 50/50 chance of living. I then heartfully convert to Christianity and pray that Jesus will save my mother. If she lives, I would likely put a 'W' in the prayer column; god said 'yes'. BUT the doctors said that it was a 50/50 shot anyway, so how do I know it was prayer?

Say my mother died, if I'm a devout Christian I would probably say that god must have answered 'no' and chault another 'W' in the prayer column. I would justify my mother dying and god not saving her with some excuse like 'God wanted my mother with him in heaven', or 'God must be putting these challenges in my life for a higher purpose'. BUT the doctors said that it was a 50/50 shot anyway, so how do I know that it was prayer?

In both cases it would be out of my control if my mother died. So to say that you believe in god because he answered your prayers is a little disingenious at best. When you have the 'yes', 'no', 'maybe later' approach to prayer answering, EVERY PRAYER is answered, which means that really no prayer is answered.


Naturally, someone is always going to say, "It would have happened anyway."

Anything is possible and we'll never know what 'woulda happened' , will we?

Yes, you can say if you wish that all the requests that I have received as answers to prayer 'woulda happened anyway', and there's no way to verify or falsify it, is there?

So , there's always room for doubting, just as there's always room for faith.

Even the most spectacular events that can be attributed to prayer, I have also heard people dismiss, saying 'yeah it would have happened anyway'.

And prayer is just one of many reasons that I believe.
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Eorl
 
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Reply Mon 18 Dec, 2006 11:50 pm
Wilso wrote:
Thankyou. It's such a huge responsibility. I hope I'm up to the task. Luckily I've got a wonderful lady beside me.


I'm sure she'll help and support you through the whole experience Wilso. :wink:

Don't worry, you're gonna love it.

When's due? (Our second is due in 4 weeks, could be any day now)
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Wilso
 
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Reply Tue 19 Dec, 2006 05:41 pm
July 8
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Eorl
 
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Reply Tue 19 Dec, 2006 07:42 pm
Winter baby. Much better idea !! Can I recommend Kaz Cooke's "Up the Duff" ?
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baddog1
 
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Reply Thu 21 Dec, 2006 08:56 am
aperson wrote:
Course I do. What kind of outcast loner do you take me for.

Chirstmas and Easter are not only Christian celebrations, they are also western celebrations (and in many cases eastern celebrations). Christmas brings many positive emotions. Sure, it can become a materialistic thing, but you control that. Why should I deny myself the pleasure of giving (and receiving) gifts?


If your opportunity to give & receive gifts is more important than whatever your stance is on a "Christian-based" holiday, then you shouldn't deny yourself that pleasure.

It's all about what's most important to you - your "position" on such or your personal gains associated with the Christmas (Christ - mass) celebration. :wink:
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sozobe
 
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Reply Thu 21 Dec, 2006 09:52 am
Hey, congrats, Eorl! How old is your first child?
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