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What source for self-esteem?

 
 
coberst
 
Reply Sun 8 Oct, 2006 06:38 am
What source for self-esteem?

"The religious believer assigns dignity to whatever his religion holds sacred?-a set of moral laws, a way of life, or particular objects of worship. He grows angry when the dignity of what he holds sacred is violated." Quote from "The End of History and the Last Man".

To what does the non-believer, or perhaps the partial-believer, assign dignity? If the non-believer does not assign self-esteem to the ability to comprehend rationality, upon what foundation does s/he stand? If the non-believer does depend upon rationality for self-respect how is it possible that so few comprehend anything about rationality?

In the US our schools and colleges are beginning to teach the art and science of good judgment. It is called CT (Critical Thinking). CT teaches the young person how to think; not just what to think.

What about today's adult? Today's adult was educated in a time when schools and colleges never provided universal instruction in the art and science of thinking?-rationality.

For a 12 to 18 years period from the age of 6 to our mid twenties we have lived constantly in an educational system wherein we seldom if ever learned to function intellectually independent of outside direction. How is it possible for such an individual to develop the internal processes (bootstrap) that allow him or her to become an independent critically self-conscious thinker?

Like the PC setting in front of us we seem to have an automatic default position. Our default position is ?'reject' when encountering any idea that does not fit in our already learned patterns and algorithms. Somehow the individual must find a way to change that default position from ?'reject' to ?'examine critically'. Of course?-how do we every not reject this message?

Making good judgments is an important and complex matter. There are bad judgments, good judgments, and better judgments. To make better judgments requires many kinds of knowledge, skills, and character traits all working together.

Like chess, Critical Thinking is an asset that can influence the judgments one makes in all matters in their life. It can be a strategic tool or a tactical tool?-it can change ones world view. It gives in accordance to the investment made. But too often the neophyte learns the moves that each piece can make, plays a few games and wanders away bewildered as to why anyone could take the matter seriously.

Of course, everyone is a critical thinker. I call this the Regan style critical thinking?-trust but verify. But I think much more than this is required. Do you think that you need to know much more about CT?

If today's adult wishes to learn CT s/he must learn it on his or her own nickel. I think a good read to begin with is this one
http://www.bu.edu/wcp/Papers/Educ/EducHare.htm
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Cyracuz
 
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Reply Sun 8 Oct, 2006 12:48 pm
Why does it always sound like you are selling something?

Join the cult of critical thinkers, thinking up six ways to slice a tomato before chosing a seventh. Twisted Evil

Sorry, couldn't resist.

But seriously, this critical thinking, by all estimation, seems pretty much like plain old thinking to me. It's like bottling spring water and saying it's better.
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littlek
 
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Reply Sun 8 Oct, 2006 01:04 pm
Your post was far too twisted up for me to want to follow. But, I can tell you what I think as a teacher. Self-esteem is based on self-identity. If you have a sense of place - a strong family, culture, community - that is one foundation of self-esteem. Another is how those important people in your life treat you. Adults need to make sure children succeed. They must set up learning situations where each kid can succeed and they need to tell children when they have succeeded.
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coberst
 
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Reply Mon 9 Oct, 2006 03:09 am
Cyracuz wrote:
Why does it always sound like you are selling something?

Join the cult of critical thinkers, thinking up six ways to slice a tomato before chosing a seventh. Twisted Evil

Sorry, couldn't resist.

But seriously, this critical thinking, by all estimation, seems pretty much like plain old thinking to me. It's like bottling spring water and saying it's better.


I guess I am selling an idea that knowing the art and science of good jodgment is the first step toward becoming good at making judgments. An examination of the morning papers will indicate the lack of good judgment and that is partly because few people know how to think.

We are born with an innate ability to think rationally and we are born with an innate ability to do simple addition and subtraction but we study math in school to enhance our ability with dealing with quantity. If we did that same study of rational thinking we could be much better at it.

I continually point this out in the hope that occassionally some of the readers will become curious and study the matter on their own.
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rockpie
 
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Reply Mon 9 Oct, 2006 04:21 am
i disagree, it's not a set of ''innate abilities'' that we're born with, it's sin. we are infected by sin. which is why it's always easier to do the wrong thing. if you've betrayed somebody it's always easier to deny it than admit it, for example. that satan fellow really gets on my nerves, what a f**king sh*t.
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Shapeless
 
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Reply Tue 10 Oct, 2006 12:22 am
coberst wrote:
I guess I am selling an idea that knowing the art and science of good jodgment is the first step toward becoming good at making judgments.


Good judgments come from knowing how to make good judgments. Umm, no arguments there.
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Cyracuz
 
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Reply Tue 10 Oct, 2006 05:55 am
Good judgement, like good coffee, comes from the use of only the finest quality ingredients. :wink:

Or maybe good judgement is the absence of judgement...

Maybe bad judgement is good, because it enables you to judge better in the future. Anyone can make a mistake. Only a fool can make it twice.
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Shapeless
 
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Reply Tue 10 Oct, 2006 10:10 am
Reminds me of a quote (attributed to any number of people):

"Good judgment comes from experience. And experience... well, that comes from bad judgment."
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